Just because my hair is pink and I wear an earring doesn't mean I'm gay, I'm straighter than a nail. I have some gay friends but I don't have feelings for them.
2006-10-16 16:56:17 · 31 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2006-10-19 04:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not make a habit of voicing my assumptions but I can give you some reason why they might be assuming.
My son dresses like a thug, the baggy pants, the hat on sideways, the big necklace and wants to know why the cops stop him so often.
Well if it looks like a duck and it walks like a duck it most likely is a duck. It is called profiling!
You dress a little different and these people have profiled that to mean gay. Like I told my son if you want to not conform to society that is okay but with all things there are consequences or repercussion from those choices.
Actually I think I would prefer my son have pink hair then look like a thug. LOL
2006-10-17 00:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by freemansfox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your hair is pink, you wear an earing, you have gay friends, AND,,,, your yahoo ID is sister bear?????? I mean really? Could you be any gayer? If you are so worried about it, change your look. If your comfortable with your look, than it really shouldnt matter what others think of you because you are comfortable with you. You shouldnt have to justify what you are, unless your not really comfortable with your sexuality. So I say, either you are a closet case, or just a straight guy with pink hair. LOL.
2006-10-17 00:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You act the way you do and I'll base my opinion on that. You tell me who you are and I'll believe you until it proves not to be true.
But sometimes we can't help to be preoccupied. It is the natural learning principle. If we get routine in doing something it is more or less the same thing. You don't have to look twice, but judge on the situation from the look of it.
It often doesn't give a good result in judging people, because we are all so different. Still, you should be yourself. The people who you care for will know who you are.
2006-10-17 15:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Free spirits that don't conform to societies views are often considered to be gay. I know it's not right but that's the way it is.
Example: pink hair/earring
2006-10-17 00:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by arcabear69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society in general has not separated youthful fads in dress and appearance from those they think go on in the gay subculture. And not just older people make this mistake either; sometimes ones own peers do the same thing.
2006-10-17 00:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people simply have mannerisms of the opposite sex, which can confuse the general society.
My husband has the same problem. He has soft features, a high voice, and limp wists, but is not attracted to men in the least.
2006-10-17 00:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the pink hair and earring that are throwing them off.
2006-10-16 23:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sick of you asking this question I am starting to think that you like the fact that people assume that you are gay. Some people think that I'm straight and I'm not...so what. Get over it.
2006-10-17 09:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of people just have this idea of what a straight guy is like and in their minds that probably doesn't envolve a guy having pink hair so they probably automatically assume you are gay. unfortunately, that's just the way society is
2006-10-17 00:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is this kid in my school with purple hair that I see making out with his girlfriend all the time. Just because your hair is a more... girly color, doesn't mean you're gay.
2006-10-17 00:00:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋