We're talking about in the absence of any promiscuous or suspicious behavior here. I had a significant other who demanded this of me and I thought that was too much, particularly since I was the choreographer for a large volunteer performance group and people knew I was always on the hunt for new dancers to feature front row or for the chorus. I was brought up that it is perfectly fine for your date to dance with others as long as they ask you first, or the person who is offering to dance (typically the man) asks you as their date, first. And as long as the first and last dance were saved for the one that brought you, it was O.K. to dance with others (to a limit, mind you, but not to the point they make it obvious they are more interested in everyone else). Well, my significant other thought these were ridiculous rules and she refused to allow me to dance with any other...and I thought that extreme. We eventually broke up over her controlling ways. But what are your rules here?
2007-11-21
01:15:24
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