I will try to be fair and tell the story from both standpoints. Firstly, my boyfriend and I have completely different taste in music. I listen to rock, he listens to hip hop, rap, funk (which I do like), and techno. I was listening to the Smashing Pumpkins loudly waiting for him to come home. He walks in talking to his friend on the phone, and makes a face like " Whoa", and then says the equivalent (he speaks a different language) to "dude, listen to this music"...and then holds up the phone for him to hear it, and then they laugh. I get pissed for two reasons: If I ever have anything to say about his music choice or the volume I can expect a snappy remark from him so usually I try to keep my opinion to myself for his happiness, and I felt like if he wants to make fun of the things I like to his friend then it feels the same as if he is making fun of me. I stormed in the other room and shut the music off. He says "what the hell is your problem"?
Do I have a right to be upset?
2007-11-19
01:53:48
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audreynstuff
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