My fiance is one of the worst slobs I have ever seen. She doesn't know how to clean, I do all of the laundry as well as all of the cleaning including dishes. I work about 12 to 14 hours a day, so I value my free time. I find my self cleaning the house from top to bottom, once every week including the laundry. What makes it worse is that we ahve an 18 month old little boy. I normally have to watch him on the weekends because she works. She only works about 30 hours a week, the rest of her time is free since she takes the baby to daycare ( the weekends are part of the 30 hour week ).
Everytime I bring up the cleaning thing, she gets defensive and we start to fight. A lot of her slobbyness can be prevented by actually just paying attention to little things like cleaning up after herself after a meal, etc. The bathroom is the worst part.
What can I do here??? I need help!!!! Please let me know your suggestions. Any ideas would be of great assistance.
2007-08-05
07:04:53
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Lou
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