Psychology - August 2007

We both did things to ruin our marraige..me more than him.. He left a year and a half ago and I have been obsessed withe the idea of he will come back. The strange things is we get along, he comes over frequently to visit with the kids, he says, but when i try to stay away from them he calls me into the living room or outside whereever he is he calls me to him. Or when he takes the kids out who are 10 and 11 and are good and doesnt need my help with them has me go too. He tells me he is not coming back and that he does not love me in that way but his actions and some things he says tells me different. There isn't a day that goes by that he doesn't come over or call. And if I don't call him he calls me.I am feeling alone and sad. I just want to be with him and he obviously wants to be around me. Why can't he just come home and how do I get over this and move on cus I cant live like this anymore but i cant seem to move on and he hasn't even filed 4 div.

2007-08-10 07:24:21 · 1 answers · asked by youcandoit 4

Have you ever experienced existential angst? An unexplicable dread? If so, how would you explain it? Do you think there are causes and solutions?

2007-08-10 07:02:21 · 31 answers · asked by k 3

My boss have us do things like have us do peer reviews on each other and we must talk about the positive and the negative when we do these reviews on each other. Then all she does it use it all to her advantage. I really hate this job but the only thing I have right now to pay my bills. How am I suppose to handle such situation? Can someone give me some good advice?

2007-08-10 06:42:58 · 10 answers · asked by result now 2

why is it that we say that when we are haveing sex we are making love love is so much deeper than that? why do we use love to get sex? love is much greater than that

2007-08-10 06:42:20 · 10 answers · asked by JOEY J 1

Im a male, and just wondering which therapist i should seek out. i know there may not be a difference but as a man's standpoint which could help me the most?

2007-08-10 06:38:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do not talk at school unless someone talks to me, which is not a lot of talking. Sometimes i ask questions but not very often. When a phone call comes, like the library i do not want to take it because im shy. I sometimes bump into people when walking and its embarrasing. I want to change my ways. any ideas, please?

2007-08-10 05:13:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-10 05:06:22 · 5 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

2007-08-10 05:04:49 · 21 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

get successful in life?

2007-08-10 04:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i get worried i'm going to offend people. All the time. I'm nice to them but i feel like im met with cold treatment after awhile. Am i not sucking up enough? I think people get mad at me and dislike me.

2007-08-10 04:11:03 · 9 answers · asked by drone 1

especially people?

2007-08-10 04:07:49 · 4 answers · asked by girl 3

i am not asking that cause i know anyone who wants to kill himself, i am just writing a work for college about rationality...

2007-08-10 03:09:05 · 17 answers · asked by linor b 1

I am a Magician's Assisstant (it's fun), and I am a size 4-6, 5 foot 7. However, he wants me to be rail thin, and everytime he sees me, his first comment is, oh my god, your'e getting fat, or have you gained weight??? In today's society I know it is expected to be a size 2 or 0. However, I am not, and I don't want to be.

This is somthing I enjoy doing, and is helping me with theatre in general. How do I tell him professionally that his remarks hurt me and if they don't stop, he won't have an assisstant?

PS- he's fat

2007-08-10 02:26:19 · 9 answers · asked by Kelsey Renee 2

Hi

Am 20 year girl , wake up everyday crying feel depressed, seek attention but I cant found =’( , I have a bf who’s far away 4 now after he was filling my life ,I want some1 give me attention but there is no1 , I feel lonely ,depreesed , am so ******, what can I do =( ??!

2007-08-10 01:09:21 · 3 answers · asked by ♫Donna♫ 2

for revenge like putting you're snotty hankie in your bosse's pocket.

2007-08-10 01:02:50 · 6 answers · asked by louise d 6

The real question I ask is: What is the pschological term, condition, that refers to when someone says "But you don't know how much I love you!" when you don't give them something they want from you?

Because they did'nt get a certain desired response/action from you. If you are in a relationship, engaged, and you spend a lot of time together, but then you want some time to yourself to occupy your hobby, read, think and pray, and/or etc., but they rebel and pout, and then say that you don't know how much they love you as they waited all day to see you, (no exact plans made), (you did'nt say you would), and because you won't offer your cam or view theirs because you are concentrating on something that it would interfere with. Let's say you are a writer. And can't write when always distracted, your time demanded, every day. But they love you so much, that you should.... ? Should what? Let them possess you? Attempt to own you? "Individual" and "freewill" no longer have meaning?

2007-08-10 00:28:41 · 15 answers · asked by SOULCRY 3

2007-08-09 22:32:13 · 22 answers · asked by RoChEr 5

She calls me her *********. daughter. Also the S word that refers to a woman that sleeps around. I recently got a high paying job and she tells me I won't be able to keep my money and how to spend it. One of my sisters she always brings up around me and tells me how she loves her so much and insinuates she loves her more than me, then when i ask why she says, can't i love my daughter? ''You won't keep me away from her''. Her and my father got divorced a couple years back and now she makes me feel guilty for seeing or speaking to him. She also makes comments about my weight and does the opposite of encouraging me when im working towards a goal. Why do you think she does these things?

2007-08-09 22:13:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

...there are times in our lives where we have to not only "be good," we have to expose our inner "bad" selves at the same time, and admit that..."We are our own worst enemy..."
Do you agree, disagree, or ambiguously acknowledge it might be both, neither, or irrelevant to our very "human" condition...?

2007-08-09 21:50:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I worked at an assisted living facility for old people and left with a day's notice. I could not stand my new supervisor or the thought of going in again. It's been a couple of months now and I still haven't found a job. My boyfriend has been helping with bills and expensives and he is fed up with me. I have tried all kind of things, but no one wants me. How do you present yourself to a potential employer with this kind of record. I suffer from a lot of anxiety and panic attacks and I am just about to got out of my mind. Please do not be mean, I already am mean enough to myself.

2007-08-09 20:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 19:24:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just took an afternoon nap today for about 2 hours. in that time i started to have a series of lucid dreams. the problem is i couldnt stay in them very long, i have to keep using the spinning technique like every 10 seconds and it only works about half the time. im also aware that becoming exited can wake you but i am usually calm. so here are some questions:

1. can someone give me some tips for staying in my lucid dreams for a long time (like atleast a few minutes, not 10 seconds)?
2. is that normal to only stay in that short?
3. idk if its just me but it seems the spinning method will only work if you start doing it the second the visual starts to fade, is this true?

2007-08-09 19:07:22 · 4 answers · asked by amos 2

Whenever I'm stressed out and my life just seems too crazy to handle...I clean. I clean my house(every single room), sometimes for hours at a time but it makes me feel better at the end....like everything's in control again.

Is that a weird thing to do??

I was talking with my sister and she remembers me being like 2 years old, barely able to walk and cleaning a smudge off of a mirror...

2007-08-09 18:54:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don't just tell me to get off my butt - I'm asking for serious answers. I've got an anxiety problem that flares up when I go out in public, so finding a job is a bit difficult for me.

Any tips or ideas?

2007-08-09 18:17:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

SUCCESS

2007-08-09 17:24:44 · 8 answers · asked by something rotten stink 1

2007-08-09 17:14:42 · 23 answers · asked by Jrod. ALin Park 2

2007-08-09 16:56:03 · 2 answers · asked by Rhea 1

I heard that in a movie... i never understood it really until now. What do you think about it? Should you forget your regrrets, or remember them...

2007-08-09 16:54:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are all animals, only difference is that we are a bit smarter. So, are humans meant to be monogamous by nature? Is it all a social or religious effect?

2007-08-09 16:27:55 · 12 answers · asked by Coma White 5

I am always diverted by thinking abt sex and love.But i want to concentrare in my work .Can any one help me

2007-08-09 16:09:30 · 6 answers · asked by Mad_For_U 1