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2007-08-10 05:04:49 · 21 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Social Science Psychology

21 answers

There should be some space for 'privacy' and boundary for 'self-respect'.

2007-08-10 05:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by hy003002 5 · 0 2

I think this depends on the couple. There should definately be no secrets.
But as for space and boundaries, depends on the people. My husband and I don't have much...we're very close and comfortable with each other and happy. We don't get sick of each other or need time away from each other. But we're also both just very affectionate, and it's the way we show our love. Some couples aren't very "touchy-feely" and prefer to have some space. Some need a "girls night out" and "hanging with the guys" type thing once in a while.
Why do you ask? Are you just curious or is it personal for your marriage?

2007-08-14 13:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I think it's good for a husband and wife to each have a bit of their own space. He can spend some time with his friends without her or go and do something by himself and vice versa for example.

As far as boundaries, I'm not sure what you're asking about but whenever there are 2 adults in a relationship, each will have their own ideas and they should talk about their differences/boundaries and work out a compromise.

2007-08-10 12:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 0 1

it depends on the situation of the marriage and what is going on with your partner now if they are depressed and you know they have thought of hurting them selfs that part no not until they feel that they are able to handle it what ever it may be because you married them and you love them you don't want them to die it would be like losing a part of you at least it should be. but everyone needs time alone to think but when there is a problem work on it then dont walk away unless it is getting out of hand like neither one of you can agree and are getting mad more so if one or more of you have an anger problem let it cool down then come back at a later date and try to talk it out together listening first then talking knowing you both will not see eye to eye on every thing but know that you can live and work together to make a great life but in a good case of marriage it is good to have time alone but not too much in any way because both of you need suport of the other and needs of many types that only the other person can fill to uplift or support when it is needed but in my mind when it comes to each other i feel when you are married you are one and must learn to work as one but many people have a hard time with that because of personal desires that up lift them above there mate no matter what it may be there are many things that we want that we would do almost any thing for and your mate you should do for them not others or self but the whole marriage on both parties need to learn that you have made a bond one that can last all your life if you are willing to let go of you and learn to be something new and when you add to your body any thing it becomes a part of the whole there is only membrane between any cell of the body and they all connect in one way or another well in marrage that is what i should be like all working together for the good of our life friends and partners through it all so yes and no is the answer that i give you only each person can answer this question for themselfs i have given you mine and what i think now like with all other questions you have to look and see what seems right

2007-08-10 13:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by JOEY J 1 · 0 0

Marriage is the closest relation any two people can have. So I don't think there should be any space between husband and wife.

2007-08-10 12:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Remi♥ 4 · 0 0

Sure!
If you believe in a soul, well, that may be joined in numerous ways, depending on your beliefs.
But there is still a body, and mind, that are actually one. When physical illness strikes, moodiness may occur.
Emotions can likewise change the bio rhythm.
So, as long as there are two corporeal bodies functioning independently of each other, you will have two separate entities.
Further,
addressing the notion of "soul". I am not religious, but do have a Christian background.
Stemming from that perspective, I equate "soul" with "free will".
Regardless of all psychological and physical processes, there is available to anyone with cognitive functioning, the power of choice.
There is no formula to determine a person's definite future actions, no matter how the statistics may predict for a group.
Therefore, the woman and man each, independently, have choices to make.
They may CHOOSE to make the same choices, to lead and follow in their ways- or they may CHOOSE to be true to their separate selves.
Of course, I believe that many times one must sacrifice, not be so "true to oneself", in order to achieve some sort of harmony-
And there again, there are times that one must assert oneself- to lead, to seld-defend, to stay the course when the other is falling short for hte time being.
Does that sum it up?

2007-08-10 12:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0 1

of course, everybody needs their own bubble to go into after a long day, it doesn't matter if u share your life with anyone. But the secret is to do this without negleting your partner, without letting them think that they are the problem. Married couples should share everything, but i think they can be understanding to spare each other 15 minutes of their time for space.

2007-08-10 12:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm not sure I understand your question. I believe there should be some breathing space in a marriage; being "joined at the hip" is NOT healthy for either party. If you meant something else, then I guess you'll have to elaborate in your question.

2007-08-10 12:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

One body and two souls. No boundry

2007-08-10 12:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by evertalall 4 · 0 1

everyone needs a little space in their lives, even the people who are married, but the true question is how much.

2007-08-17 01:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by jvega624 3 · 0 0

Not sure what you asking here, everyone has their own personal space, married or not. If there are boundaries then its up to the individuals to define what exactly those are.

2007-08-10 12:12:42 · answer #11 · answered by krennao 7 · 0 1

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