Psychology - July 2007

So that we not only don't make that mistake again but we learn how to cope and help others. My question to you is, when do we learn to stop making those mistakes, and start learning? When do we remove the training wheels? Most people think love is one HUGE learning lesson.. but we just stated above you cant learn unless you make a mistake.so why walk willingly into a mistake you know you'll just wind up getting hurt from? No one thinks mistakes are mistakes at the time that they walk into them... so why walk? why not just sit and wait. seems logical. but in my mind, waiting doesnt make life worth living. been there, done that, sucked ***. But id we walk and walk into mistakes we know damn well we are going to make why dont we better protect ourselves?They say that you should love like you never loved before. Run wide eyed into a battle and not think twice. but why do we do this? what makes this new person make us think it'll be so much better with them? what justifies time to move on?

2007-07-05 17:50:56 · 2 answers · asked by your_everyday_answer 1

what would you change?

2007-07-05 17:34:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what causes this thought pattern, how do you break it?

2007-07-05 16:18:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

friends. Ever time I make a friend, I end up being used and abused. I'm at the end of my rope. I hate this society, I hate the way we are all so isolated from each other. I live in a building with tons of people, but everyone keeps to themselves. I feel like I'm just killing time until death takes me away from here. Can you offer any suggestions for me?

2007-07-05 15:50:46 · 11 answers · asked by Sam D 1

2007-07-05 14:43:56 · 16 answers · asked by A 5

I'm living in Orange County. How can I get some help without paying about psycology problem? I do need help? but money is a problem for me to go to see a professional psycologist. please help me!

2007-07-05 14:33:09 · 8 answers · asked by sun s 1

2007-07-05 14:12:20 · 13 answers · asked by .o0o. 1

I was told that:
"you keep me leveled through my ups and downs".

2007-07-05 13:54:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife of 6 yrs left 9 months ago and I am STILL dieing inside and feel like it I will never be happy again. Shouldn't I be over it now?

2007-07-05 13:40:37 · 25 answers · asked by fedup 1

what day is the warped tour in las cruzes?? please please tell me!! hehehe im soo excited!! ^_^ anyone else going??

2007-07-05 13:31:58 · 2 answers · asked by . 5

If not why?

2007-07-05 13:03:03 · 3 answers · asked by ♣Hey jude♣ 5

Hi. I've been working with my self-esteem, I really have it low.
But I have found it difficult. Everytime I focus on this, I really get depressed and feel worse.

I read a book that says that one first needs to understand the whys of low-self esteem.... but everytime I do this i just feel totally worse, confused, and so on...

should I just move on, forget all this, try to improve my self esteem without really knowing the "whys" of it. Should I just start using the techniques to improve it without really thinking so much about it and without trying to understand the whys, and the stuff in my past?

2007-07-05 12:22:13 · 6 answers · asked by XM 2

I'm shocked. I just heard that someone thinks I'm very arrogant and disrespectful. Although I think I am not. In fact, I have average to low self-esteem. On the other hand, some people think I'm very unassertive.
I hate it when people judge me unfairly. It's causing me troubles in life, especially at job interviews. Is the problem in me, or in people?

2007-07-05 12:19:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

what can you do if your frightened by this thought/idea?

2007-07-05 11:23:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-05 11:22:14 · 5 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4

everyone made it. eminem made it. 50 cent made it. now my friend will make it soon. im not talking about music im talkin about dreams when my dream will come ? i want to be a writer(i dont even know if i should be one) when my time will come ?
when life will smile at me!!

2007-07-05 10:50:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

please do not answer with anything corny...

2007-07-05 10:28:47 · 7 answers · asked by sienna jane 2

2007-07-05 10:26:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example, do women change the same way as other women, different from men?

How about older people vs younger people?

2007-07-05 10:14:08 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1

trying to control my life? are they preventing me doing something? is there some hidden law in society which is preventing me from living my life & attaining my dreams?

the situation is this. im a 30 year old bpd sufferer, whos been through a hell of alot in my life, alot of pain & trauma.
and whenever i talk about my dreams & aspirations in life that im trying to aim for. of emigration from the united kingdom. of moving to canada or the u.s...or of finding the loving partner and the girl i choose...of finding a comfortable home to live in with her...:~ these are my dreams which i want to reach, no lowering of my sites for nobody..but when i talk about them all i hear is,can't, can't, cant cant, cant & can't.....

so what do they mean by this then? what are they saying? that i cant do these things? that they are trying to control me? that i wont be allowed to? that there will be certain people to stand in my way?.......
can somebody please explain what people could possibally

2007-07-05 09:27:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-05 08:50:46 · 21 answers · asked by Timeless 2

I cant help notice how bitter people can be. If you ask for help your told 'do it yourself' Ive noticed it so much on here. Im tryin to figure out were the hatred comes from. Is it becuase our lifes have got so boring and nothing but work that we start showing resentment to people that have got what we want instead of being happy for them? Ideas???

2007-07-05 08:38:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

When it gets to the point that it's effecting you in many ways?

2007-07-05 08:31:52 · 11 answers · asked by ♥shelshelroxs2007♥ 2

All within you... WHO? HOW MANY?

The hard worker, the YA addict, the super mom, the bi*** ex husband, the good daughter, the kick @ss neighbor, the poor student...

2007-07-05 07:46:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-05 07:44:58 · 14 answers · asked by twitching_green_grasshopper 3

I wonder if my life and my families life would be any better if we just picked up and moved out of the country. Of course I would have to study places to go, but if anyone has actually done this I would like to know how and where.

2007-07-05 06:39:06 · 8 answers · asked by melessalove 1

Im 16,and I want to go for some sort of help.I strongly believe I have BPD,and I have other issues that I want to sort out before they turn into something really nasty,because I know things have the potential to get really bad with me,as it has before.However,everyone I mentioned this to said not to go.They think I have to have more serious problems to go for that kind of help.=\.So how do you really know if you should go or not?

2007-07-05 06:08:39 · 9 answers · asked by divine_wind 3

2007-07-05 06:01:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy i know is very busy and not a writer but since i can't see him because we live so far away from each other i write him. I just tell him what is going on in my life. I have humor. When i visit the town i go and see him and he seems happy. He never mentions the letters. He always seems happy to see me and never says not to write. What is your view and opinions of this..do men like to get letters from women they like. I know alot of men just don't write and don't really like to ''talk'' about things like a women do. But do they like to hear or read stuff that women like to talk about..i write about everything and anything ..I also mention him..like how i miss certain things about him and so on...I just want to know what men think of this kind of thing.

2007-07-05 05:39:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-05 05:38:39 · 13 answers · asked by ? 5