something to make you think....Life is about learning. Making mistakes and learning.?

Question

So that we not only don't make that mistake again but we learn how to cope and help others. My question to you is, when do we learn to stop making those mistakes, and start learning? When do we remove the training wheels? Most people think love is one HUGE learning lesson.. but we just stated above you cant learn unless you make a mistake.so why walk willingly into a mistake you know you'll just wind up getting hurt from? No one thinks mistakes are mistakes at the time that they walk into them... so why walk? why not just sit and wait. seems logical. but in my mind, waiting doesnt make life worth living. been there, done that, sucked ***. But id we walk and walk into mistakes we know damn well we are going to make why dont we better protect ourselves?They say that you should love like you never loved before. Run wide eyed into a battle and not think twice. but why do we do this? what makes this new person make us think it'll be so much better with them? what justifies time to move on?

Answer 1

all I can say is that is life. You have to make mistakes to learn anything, even if you have to make the same mistake 10 thousand times to finally learn not to do it anymore.
I believe that when we die we are reborn in another lifetime. We will end up chosing the same people in our lives, but we may do something different. A mistake that you may have done and learned from in a previous life will not occur. Or it may occur but in a different form, maybe not as drastic. Maybe in a previous life you got married at 13 years old, and had kids right away...well in your next life you will marry at 23 and wait to have kids....and so on and so on.
Its just like that saying "life repeats itself", well, I believe it to be true. Just look in the history books and you will see and read about mistakes that have been made over and over again in history. They may be a little different each time, but the core of it is that it is the same stupid mistake, and we are still trying to learn from it.

Answer 2

Because even when it ends up being a mistake, you feel so great when you are first starting out in love.