what would you change?
2007-07-05 17:34:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Forest_Love I made mistakes too.
2007-07-05 17:51:13 · update #1
Absolutely nothing at all. I made a ton of serious mistakes in my lifetime. They ALL, every single one of them, helped me to LEARN, develop and mature into the person that I am right now. I'm a strong individual, yes I still make mistakes and I stoill have a lot to learn. I think that's why Fate LETS us make mistakes. So that we CAN learn from them. That's how WE as a people become stronger, more mature and more able to deal with things as they pop up in our lives.
If I were able to go back and change things then I believe that I'd be changing who and what I AM right now. No, my life's NOT perfect bliss but; life is NOT supposed to be that way. We're here to LEARN, develop and become better FROM our mistakes. Don't YOU agree?
Raji the Green Witch
2007-07-06 01:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Raji the Green Witch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go back to when I was 14 and done things differently. I don't really want to go into detail because then I'll just get myself upset, but if I could go back in time, I'd go back to when I was 14 and I'd do things differently. Pretty much everything differently. But if I did that then I may not have my boyfriend now and that would be bad, so how can I say that?
Hmm... just have to deal with things as they come, I suppose, huh?
2007-07-06 12:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This probably isn't the best answer, but considering I don't live with many regrets....
I used to cut. One time, i carelessly hid a razor with a little blood on it, in my room, on my dresser, covered with a tank top. While I was downstairs, my mom went upstairs into my messy room to gather dirty clothes. She picked up the tank top and found the razor. She called me upstairs and I was forced to show her my wounds. Reality hit me and after she left the room I broke down and couldn't stop crying for 5 hours straight. Even though she choses to forget the whole event considering I promised I'd stop (i still haven't completely) but I wish I would have hid the razor better. I was so ashamed and guilty. And at the time I was only 12.
2007-07-06 00:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that the one thing that I would change would be having my oldest daughter as young as I did. Because I was so young I had to make life altering decisions for both her and I and I'd have liked to make some better decisions. That said I'm mostly content with the way that things are now.
2007-07-06 13:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kathryn R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would change one decision that I made in 1978. I now know it was a life decision, probably for both parties, and I handled the situation poorly. [I won't bore you with the details.] Thank you and good luck to you.
2007-07-06 01:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by Neil S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would change september the 11th 1975 when my parents home caught fire in the middle of the night and left my 17 year old brother dead.
2007-07-06 03:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would change all the wrongs I've done And I love my children but I would have waited to have sex and children, I would have listen a little more to my parents, and paid a little more attention in school.
2007-07-06 15:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by babgirl07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) my clothes. I would want to fit in and be an observer.
2) i'd like to talk to my father before he died.
3) I'd like to change a few personal decisions in my past.
2007-07-06 00:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by Richard of Fort Bend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would have worked really hard and stuck with playing baseball. I love the sport and I do have a good arm and often dream I'm a MLB player.
2007-07-06 00:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by St3v0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have given myself a chance to fall in love young so that I won't have a hard time dealing with it now.
2007-07-06 01:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by coolblueacid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋