what causes this thought pattern, how do you break it?
2007-07-05 16:18:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Maybe it's the only thing for which you are getting good feedback at the moment . . . if you want to break the thought pattern, try doing stuff that you feel passionate about, like taking a cooking class or singing lessons.
2007-07-05 16:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Allegra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the causes are- not taking care of yourself and your needs, no spirituality, something missing such as the love of a parent and so on. Breaking the cycle - seek professional counselling or help yourself through self-help books, write in a journal about your feelings and think of positive ways to make changes.
2007-07-05 23:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sharee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called the bodily conception of life. When one identifies with their body they think they are this body. We are not this body, IE Race, color, nationality, gender, sexuality, job, intellect, mind etc. We are eternal spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul. As long as someone identifies with any of the above then they will think they are those things and suffer from that mentally and emotionally. The only way to overcome this material disease it to first realize who you are in actuality. That means connecting with our creator. There is really no other way around getting out of this miserable condition called sex addiction. or any other addiction for that matter. IF yo are serious then I suggest you read Bhagavad Gita as it is BY Bhaktivedanta PRabhupada. you can read it on line on asitis.com chanting the Maha Mantra is the quickest and easiest means to overcome all misery and addictions and illusion that we think we are this body. It is the Great Mantra for deliverance from all suffering and illusion and bodily identification. If you would like the site for this mantra please write me. Take care.
2007-07-05 23:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some depressed women do and the first thing they must do is ,
Stop all sex until they get their head clear .
Continuing sex while in that mental state is counter-productive .
Once they get their mind in order , they can go about establishing good relationships that include sex .
2007-07-05 23:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem causes this.. You fix it by finding ways to feel better about yourself, and stop giving away sex. That you way you can focus on other things...
2007-07-05 23:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by usefulidiot230 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start looking at yourself has having intellectual value. Be confident and know that you have a mind and interesting things to say and shy away from men that don't really want to get to know you.
2007-07-05 23:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever noticed men have more confidence in themselves when you asked them what their accomplishments are? Set out to accomplish something and affirm yourself through your actions, not your relationships through others. Dr. Laura written a book ten things women do to screw (or mess up) their lives. I highly recomend it.
2007-07-05 23:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by gotagetaweigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋