in a nut shell, i lost the true genuine affection i had for my husband in about 2004,but have stayed for the various "common sense" reasons someone stays with someone else..not wanting to rock the boat..ect. the classic, i love him, but i am not in love with him any more, and that is very sad
last year i met another man that i have developed feelings for in spite of myself.
so-I have managed to work up the guts think about actually leaving, but not nessecarily because i want to get with this other guy.-it is just that now that I have met this other guy, I see all kinds of possibilities for personal growth outside of married life.
I know if I left my husband, a good amount of time would have to pass before i even thought of seeing anyone else-
i am asking for clarity, maybe some questions to ask myself about this situation. need to separate the 2 issues to make sure i am leaving my husband for the right reason, rather than it looking like i left him for this other guy
2007-05-16
04:39:04
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Shake-Zula
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