HAVE TO have the last word? I mean it....it has bothered and frustrated me for years, and I finally learned to just laugh it off and let them say or think whatever they please. Whew....it is actually so freeing. Seriously.
2007-05-16 02:43:12 · 6 answers · asked by melissa 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Congratulations, that is a hard thing to do but as you said is very freeing to your spirit. Keep it up. People may feel the need to get in the last word but that is their problem. You are doing great. Applause, applause.....standing ovation!!!!!!!
2007-05-16 05:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
About two days ago I told someone off for something that they did a year ago and i could not forgive and forget. It felt great... Dont laugh anything off and dont keep anything bundled up. Dont ever walk away from something that you later will be thinking i should of said something because eventually it eats you up and you feel upset about everything all the time.
I learned the opposite of you. I learned not to walk away and say exactly the way i feel out loud. I am not better than anyone but no one is surely not better than me.
Good Luck.
2007-05-16 09:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Trying to help 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
congrats congrats!!! now let me in on the secret...lol i so understand where you are coming form.... it is very frustrating but unlike you i have not learned that task of just saying whatever.... and letting them say what they have to Say..
2007-05-16 10:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Heather C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats!!!
2007-05-16 09:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by mageta8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
way to go! good job overcoming a short coming!
2007-05-16 09:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by chelley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CONGRATULATIONS.
How do you do it. I need advise. :-)
2007-05-16 09:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by threeboysmamma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋