Psychology - January 2007

This is a very sensitive topic. I'm not very popular in junior high, I only have one good friend, none of the girls like me, they never have, they think I'm weird. I've been looking at porn for a while, but recently, none of the girls like me, so I actually viewed underage girls on a file sharing program (Not on the internet) because I was curious. I finally snapped into it and realized how dirty, discusting, and wrong it was. I guess it's like smoking (not that I do) you know it's wrong but you don't realize how wrong it is. I have a guilty conscience, and I feel terrible about it. I feel like I don't deserve to live because of what i've done. I'm now really depressed but I can't tell ANYONE. Suffering from guilt is a terrible punishment. I don't know what to do. I've removed everything I could possibly get porn on my computer and stopped. I know some of you have daughters out there and would like to shoot me right now. I guess I just got curious and tempted and did the wrong thing.

2007-01-12 13:36:36 · 12 answers · asked by JC 2

2007-01-12 13:21:41 · 15 answers · asked by Chelsea 2

I have been depressed about the last half a year. I've always had a feeling of worthlessness and felt that i was never good enough for anybody, but it wasnt as bad as it is now. I've recently been going out with a girl for about a year and a half, i broke up with a little less than 2 days ago. This is like the 20th time with broken in the last few months. I found out she slept with 3 guys, and caught an std. She lied to me and did while i knew she was with them, she turn off her phone, i beg her not to anything, but she did anyway. I recently found out all the truth within the last two months. I've tried to work it with her but i dont think i can forgive her. I feel completly crushed, and want her back. I dont know were to turn i feel as if everybody is sick trying to help me. I feel so alone, and just want to jump of a building, i keep turning to liquor and adderall, to numb some of away. What should i do, i've scheduled a appointment with a theapist, but its 2 weeks away.

2007-01-12 13:20:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i suck at math. i am far too goofy. i have very few friends. i am almost always depressed. i forget lots of stuff. and worst of all, i repel girls, i guess i have nothing to live for. every girl i know rejects me. i suck at life. good-bye cruel world. should i do this.
i will write my will now but punch in the date april 1st 2010.

2007-01-12 13:17:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need to find a site that Is kind of like a group therapy for ppl online that is safe and free. I just really need to talk with someone else that is going thru wut im going thru It also needs to be good for a teenager please help me out I will give 10 points to the best answer!!

2007-01-12 13:13:06 · 14 answers · asked by HopelessCase 1

2007-01-12 13:09:36 · 13 answers · asked by just wanted to know 1

My mom lives with me and she is usually like a two year old! Her first answer to any question is NO! I want her to be happy but sometimes her attitude gets to me! She wasn't like this before, she's 78 almost 79 and just a grouch! She has everything and more than she needs but I just do know! An example, tonight we had Bar B Q for dinner and my husband just asked her if her food was good and she yelled, This is my food, like he asked for some or something. I would really like some serious answers and maybe some coping stategies! Another example is this morning when I was leaving for work, I simply asked her to lock the door behind me because it was 4 degrees and I was bundled up w/the gloves and all and it's difficult to use a key to lock the door, mind you, for her safety as well, and she said, Why can't you lock it yourself even though she was sitting two feet from the door so I did just that! Maybe it's me but she is really frustrating at times and I don't know what to do.

2007-01-12 13:08:32 · 6 answers · asked by chestnutlocs1 4

2007-01-12 13:03:55 · 3 answers · asked by Jessica R 5

yeah

2007-01-12 12:57:13 · 4 answers · asked by deadlypotent 2

2007-01-12 12:51:32 · 7 answers · asked by jane_queen_of_jungle 2

i know this rule does not apply to every family. but lately i've spending time with different families and it seems mine included that the first born tend to be smarter and more together than their siblings. any insight on this phenomenon? i'm looking for all posibilities not just common knowledge such as the first born babies get more attention because they are the first and this facilitates more faster growth and learning creating the foundation of their intelligence.
one out of the box idea i had is that generally speaking when a woman has her first baby she is more likely to be physiologically at her peak and when she has her second or third, her body may have hit a threshold and consequently underperform having an affect on the childs DNA. just a thought. i'm just curious to know what everyone else thinks.

2007-01-12 12:48:56 · 12 answers · asked by versuviusx 1

What is it about anger in a man that gets women going? I mean, seeing a woman angry makes me want to run for cover.

2007-01-12 12:45:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

How come most poor and/or low class people can't pay their fair way, or feed themselves and their numerous brats, yet they ALL will own numerous 100lb+ monsters?

What is it about being poor or low-class that dictates you must have a huge, usually agressive dog?

It's cool to disagree with me, but I challange anyone who does so to go down to the ghetto and take a look.

Thoughts?

2007-01-12 12:44:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've stuttered off & on ever since I was a kid. I'm a pretty successful, good looking guy, and will be starting at a dream firm after my MBA soon. But in spite of these things, I don't feel comfortable about myself because of my problem. I'm generally a confident guy and have no problem raising my hand and talking in class -or- talking to people, but sometimes, when I can feel a stutter coming on, I refrain from these things. I get the feeling that people confuse my handicap for a lack of confidence and think I'm being aloof. The truth is I really ENJOY being around people, but I don't want to get embarrased. The stuttering is affecting my social/dating life and will likely be an obstacle to advance in the fast paced corporate world where I will have to make presentations in front of groups shortly. I try to be positive about all this, but I'm not happy with myself. This discontent likely comes through when I'm talking to people (girls in particular). What should I do?

2007-01-12 12:44:05 · 3 answers · asked by riddler 1

2007-01-12 12:39:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other day I had a dream that a former classmate of mine committed suicide by jumping off of a pedestrian bridge over the West Side Highway in New York City. It wasn't like we were very close in real life but there he was in the middle of my dream. Any one have any ideas about what this dream could mean.

2007-01-12 12:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by SexyLawstudent 2

2007-01-12 12:28:17 · 14 answers · asked by intelligencenabottle 1

Ok I have this huge fear of being killed and I would really like to know what its called so that I can explain to people why I struggle to be alone or have a fear of windows in my home. I would really love it if someone could let me know. Thanks

2007-01-12 12:21:53 · 4 answers · asked by moon_star_black 3

I've just always gotten weirdly turned on whenever I see a woman cry. Am I abnormal? Is that bad? Tell me I'm not the only one. Come on

2007-01-12 12:18:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

and you found out that eating human brains would cure it and they( the person with the autism ) had to eat it the rest of their lives, would you become a serial killer for your child ?

Just curious

2007-01-12 12:14:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

And yet those who never mention the 'P' word are positive through and through.

2007-01-12 11:46:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I often wonder.... why do the bottom-feeding lower classes of society (and I do not necessarily mean the poor, I am refering to the human waste in the world, you know who they are) think and act like they are entitled to anything?

If you don't pull your weight in the world, I think you need to fall out. If you can't support yourself, you shouldn't have 4 kids, then cry because welfare payments don't enable you to get a new car and live in a nice house.

Why are people who choose to live in a place that is frequented by hurricanes DEMANDING cash 'aid' a year and a half after the event? It's not asked for, it's DEMANDED.

Thoughts?

2007-01-12 11:36:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

it's a question that i've been always asking myself.

2007-01-12 11:30:07 · 10 answers · asked by jupoweer7 1

My ex husbands first wife was like this, could only love one person at a time. When someone new came into her life (dog, son, daughter, husband), she would 'drop' the one she loved so much before and stop loving them completely and stop spending time with them. Now I think that my boyfriend is doing the same thing. When he was married before, he wouldn't spend time with the kids at all. When he met me 19 months ago, he rarely saw his kids. Now that we are living about 10 blocks away from them, he spends a lot of time with them, but he says he doesn''t love me as any more than a friend. What in the world is this called? Can this be cured? Woulld therapy possibly help?

2007-01-12 11:18:27 · 11 answers · asked by honey 6

2007-01-12 11:17:54 · 8 answers · asked by Ejsenstejn 2

Have you ever ask yourself how and when the world will end? What do you think

2007-01-12 11:15:21 · 15 answers · asked by Misskmomo 3

2007-01-12 11:05:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What comes into your head regarding the concept of fear? What is fear to you?

2007-01-12 11:04:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-12 11:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by firdous a 2

Do you think that a good portion of today's 20-somethings are affected by this? In what ways and to what extent? Just interested in what you have to say (oh and including your age would be helpful - an age range....ex: 25-30 (my age group) if you don't feel comfortable telling your exact age).....thanks :)

2007-01-12 11:02:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous