i am hopeless...?

Question

i suck at math. i am far too goofy. i have very few friends. i am almost always depressed. i forget lots of stuff. and worst of all, i repel girls, i guess i have nothing to live for. every girl i know rejects me. i suck at life. good-bye cruel world. should i do this.
i will write my will now but punch in the date april 1st 2010.

please help me..

hellllllllllllp

Answer 1

Call a suicide hotline. They are listed in the phone book.

You should know that your feelings are very common in adolescents, and it won't always be this way. Depression is a treatable illness, and can be helped with medication.

Not everyone is good at math. Go to your teacher and ask for help. Tutoring programs are often available. You may have a learning disability, which is not your fault. (By the way, a learning disability means that a person may need to learn in an alternate way and does not mean the person is stupid.)

People change, and usually rapidly at your age. You've got hormonal stuff going on that affects moods. Things will get better, I promise.

Your attractiveness will increase once your depression lifts. Again, often depression needs medical intervention. It is not your fault, it is not a character defect, and it won't work to try to will it away. It is hard to function when you are depressed, and everything is seen through the distortion of depression.

Hang in there, life is a gift once you know how to unwrap the package (I know that sounds corny, but I just made it up and I really believe it to be true).

It's ok to get help. We all need it sometimes.

Answer 2

Trust me, none of this stuff is actually the end of the world or worth ending your life over it. Let's see, since you are planning that far ahead, there may be hope for you. In three years, if you still have access to this posting, you will most likely laugh at yourself for writing it. You will see that there are great possibilities in life if you will just seek a positive attitude and be brave. Just be yourself and look for like minded souls. It shouldn't be too hard because a lot of people your age are going through the same thing. I have found that if I have a problem, I am not alone. If you're thinking it someone else is thinking it. We are not so different from other people we know. I'm sure you will meet a girl that will find you more interesting than you find yourself. Goofy is not such a bad thing. Most girls like humor in a guy. Just look for girls to be friends. You never know what may happen once they get to know you. We all have our insecurities. Don't be afraid of them. Embrace them and learn from them.

Answer 3

Look, math may be important but its not what life is about. Life is about being a good person and making the world a little bit better. You will find a girl who likes you for who you are. I am an awful lot like you and trust me it almost seems worthless, but in the end it is. You may not always be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but I'm sure if you keep going you come to a better place.

Answer 4

You are not hopeless. Goofy is fun! Some people aren't good at math but they are wonderful at other things. Girls, well girls are not so confident either. Most of them are thinking the same thing you are - no boy will ever ask me out, like me, love me. Stick around a while longer - as you get older you will find a girl, a job, and a life you really want. You have to work at it and make yourself the best YOU you can be. But it will be worth it.

Answer 5

usually i answer part by part, but you have too many negative things , what should I answer you if you are not worth it ?

Now Im just playing reverse psycology :) yes you are worth it and You can do in math, if you cannot take extra classes talk to your teacher ( sometimes they just sucks ) but very politely ask your teacher where can you find some extra classes, reforcement classes, im sure you know about this, look in your school , look in the website of your school, talk to the administration office , etc.
study longer hours and you will be fine.
If you have so much depression talk to your parents, and they may take you psycologist ( maybe you can find a free one at your own school ) or psyquitric to take some small amount of medication, if you cannot manage now--- your depression will manage you in the future, is a real disbalance in your brain, I let this depression control me, lately, I used to have small amounts of depression when iwas a teen, but again you have to manage the medication that you take , don't let the medication manage you either.
DO you have problems with memory? then again you may need to see a doctor , but the thing is they may recomend is to have a good health plan of diet, are you eating well over all?

If you feel great about your self then you wont repel girls, u see my title? i didnt want to answer cause you allready answer your question , if youare not worth it then why should I spend my time answer you? is what you think about you what it counts, what ever you think about you reflect in people you sent the massage then ( unconsiouly ) they believe you!, then why should i spend a time with a person who thinks so bad abouto him self?

YOu have many things to live for Im sure just look around

Answer 6

Don't do it - if one takes their own life they become a miserable ghost and suffer incessantly the misery the experienced at the time of death for a very long time. They have no senses to enjoy so they try to take over other peoples body. They are so lonely because no one sees or hear them, accept other ghosts who always torment them. We are not these bodies, we are eternal spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul, also known as Krishna, Allah, Jehovah,Vishnu,etc. We have to reconnect with our Creator to truly be happy. The quickest and easiest way is to chant the Hare Krishna Maha Mantra(the great mantra for deliverance from suffering and illusion) This world is called Maya(illusion) and is temporary and full of misery. go to harekrishnatemple. for details Read Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada which gives one the meaning of life and our lifes purpose. If you read this and do the process you will be so happy. I am now.

Answer 7

Take a deep breath and start over again!Your problem is being negative about yourself, you have to like your self before others will like you. other than your parents ,of course. look whats wrong here is you are allowing people who have given you negative feedback to influence your thinking about yourself,why are you letting these rude selfish and mean people direct your thoughts about yourself! i dont have to know you personally to know that there is good in you , cause i believe in the one that made all men,and if he took the time to create you ,then he has a purpose for you that is good,because he is a God of goodness and not evil. Open up your mind to positive feedback , but remember it takes time to sort out things and take just 1 day at a time and be happy and let yourself learn to like who you are , you ll like yourself if you give yourself a chance. Then others will see that and like you too. then when you have opposition from someone it wont bother you like it does now .Have some faith in God ,read the bible and let him direct you life, start in the new testament and begin with matthew and learn about God and his Son Jesus Christ. no one is perfect ,but we all have abilities that God has given us if we put them to use and grow in them. Giving up in life is not a good thing but to seek out answers to our problems and seek till we get a acceptable answer is the way that we must go as men in order that we might find success.thank you and i do hope that you take to heart what i have said and realize that positive thought helps and negative thought damages, so start over and do good and make yourselve happy! take care ,bob L.

Answer 8

Hey welcome to the club man! =P
So your not good in math...who is?!
I don't have that much friends but the few I have I cherish and appreciate....so should you. You repel girls...hmmm, you need
to boost your self-esteem. Woman are attracted to people who feel they are worthy of having friends or lovers etc.

I get depressed sometimes too....its good to talk to your doctor and see if antidepressants would be good for you. Talk to someone ANYONE....your not alone.
Cheer up,
Peaches

Answer 9

Math is not life, you shouldn't worry about that. Girls will come, but i think you need to talk to therapist. It may help guide you to what you need to heal. Maybe its just a phase or maybe you may need some sort of medications

Answer 10

How old are you? (Guessing) High school sucks. There is so much life after high school. Find something your good at...focus on that. Life will catch up to you later. It really will. Also...stay positive.