how do you gain self confidence?

Answer 1

well
1) trust urself and dont care what people say about u
2) dont try to make urself bad by comparing urself with other girls who r more or high skillful that u
just try to improve urself
3)try to find what is good in u and try to appear it
4) walk as a queen and tell urself that u r the best

Answer 2

The first step to building confidence, in my opinion, is finding out what you truly want. Over the next week, whenever you feel down, depressed, insecure, or frustrated, start making a list of all the things you want. They can be little things, like, "I want a glass of water" or big things, like "I want to ride around the entire world in a hot air baloon." Just write down everything and don't censor yourself. Then after a week, and even throughout the week, look at the list and decide which of those things you can do something about. Then start doing it! Some of the things might require little steps first, but if you really want it, then you can do it. As you start seeing that you can do things that make you happy, your confidence will grow!

Answer 3

Self confidence and self-esteem are both part of the same asset.
When you have esteem (respect) for your own values and judgment, you also have confidence in yourself.

The answer lies in the question; "self" is the operative word. Self-esteem is a phenomenal power that you can't buy or fake successfully, but you can earn it- however you can only earn it from yourself. It is totally within YOUR power.

Self-esteem IS NOT the same as peer esteem. Nice to have both- but without question, self-esteem is far more valuable. Do not get them confused. Seeking peer esteem usually means trading your identity to get it, and giving others power over you. Seeking self esteem is the opposite.

How can you get it?

Regardless of what others may think or say, if your actions and decisions are always done in a way that you personally can respect- you are building self-esteem; one decision at a time. It will eventually build your identity and confidence as well, and change the course of your life.

Answer 4

To Gain self confidence in your self you have to believe in yourself and love yourself don't never put your self down when someone say something negative about you think about all the positive things people have said about you and keep your head up when someone do say some mean **** to brush that **** off and when you wear something look in the mirror and say damn i know i look good as long as you know you look good that's all that matter keep that head up don't never stop smiling

Answer 5

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Identify your abilities and your goals. Rate them. Work on improving only those abilities that are already exceptional and seeking those goals that make you happiest. Each time you succeed in raising your rating from an 8 to a 10, your confidence will increase and help you to achieve your fondest goals.

Answer 6

Knowledge is CERTAINTY not information. The more certain you are about the information you have on a given topic the more knowledgeable you are considered. Eg. you & i read the same book on building a boat, the one who is more certain about the information is the one who will build a better boat, therefore self confidence arises out of certainty of knowledge & APPLYING it.

Answer 7

Can you pray. Can you trust God and keep on praying all the way.
Isaiah 50.7 upwards says for the lord God will help me therefore shall i not be confounded;therefore have i set my face like a flint and i know that i shall not be ashamed......10.who among you fears the lord God and obeys the voice of his servant,who walks in darkness and has no light yet trusts in the name of the lord and relies upon his God. The psalmist says the lord is my strenght and my song and has bacome the light of my salvation who shall i fear,the lord is the strenght of my life of whom shall i be afraid.
With this as your foundation, get your capacities and capabilities ie skills,work,vocation or mannerism into calm and focused plans and activity .See you at the top. Regards.

Answer 8

self confidence comes from inside u ,not tryin to sound soft or anything ,but u got to have confidence in yourself then others will look up to you for things

Answer 9

I would try different things that would challenge you. The things that you could try is public speaking, or something as minor as a retail sales position.

Answer 10

Take personal inventory. Identify your strengths and build on them. Identify your weaknesses and strengthen them. Close walk with God. Being all that he made you to be and giving God glory by celebrating your life!
Sister,Be well!