Psychology - December 2006

Every night when I'm lying in bed, I always get freaked out wondering if there is a robber in the house. Every little sound I hear I start breathing heavy and hold my pillow really tight. I just have a huge phobia of some insane person coming in and trying to kill me and/or my mom. I'm only thirteen and I shouldn't be freaking out over this kind of stuff every night! I think it might lead back to a nightmare I had back when I was like nine or something. I was riding in a train and we went over a tall bridge. Just then, the train went off its tracks and I woke up. I couldn't move for a few seconds and I just layed there, belly-up, my limbs sprawled across the bed, sweating. For a few months after that I had a huge fear of death and got really depressed. If you are going to call me mental or something than please don't say anything at all. Just please, I'm begging you, somebody help me!!! I can't take this every night!!!

2006-12-21 05:28:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have just discovered I have a physical condition, not life threatening, but it will get worse and affect my looks. I am in love with a man I'm not married to. He is married too and loves me. I have a loving husband who is good to me now but hasn't always been. I just can't feel the way I should about him. I know there are many who have it worse than me but I'm so depressed I feel I don't want to live. I can't seem to function. I'm still in my robe at 1:30 pm. Am I selfish to feel this way? I don't even know why I'm asking this question. I feel I'm losing my grip.

2006-12-21 05:28:54 · 9 answers · asked by crazywoman88 4

2006-12-21 05:27:44 · 25 answers · asked by Fai 1

...that you know you're going to hit the other car at 10 mph but can't do anything because of the sheet ice on the street?

2006-12-21 05:27:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy says 'that a phone number from ur mystery man before i throw it out' what that mean. he also knew it wasnt a phone number

2006-12-21 05:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 05:18:55 · 5 answers · asked by walter n 1

i have always thought about this

2006-12-21 05:04:30 · 8 answers · asked by Austin L 1

2006-12-21 05:03:14 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Rabeka♦ 2

For the past few years I have taken Wellbutrin and as a result (not everyone experiences this, thankfully) had very circular thought patterns where I would get stuck on something and not be able to stop thinking of only one point. This, in tandem with trying to *fix everything at once* (issues being childhood abuse - physical, emotional, verbal, sexual = trust issues galore) ended up as a disaster. I became increasingly paranoid socially and have ended up being on a crusade to fix everything and basically nothing else. I have alienated friends and been the issue generator, essentially. I have practically killed off one of the closest relationships of my life due to me being an @$$hole consumed with issues and unable to think of others and treat them how they deserve to be treated. I think that my relationship and many friendships are beyond repair. How can I repair what little bits are left as I am emerging out of this cloud? Is it possible? I haven't beaten anyone or clubbed a baby se

2006-12-21 04:58:01 · 4 answers · asked by wickeywickey 2

2006-12-21 04:54:35 · 13 answers · asked by LONG ISLAND GIRL 3

In my case it would be my brother who is handicapped. I can tell he would have been very intelligent otherwise and that his life would have taken on a completely different shape. I know it is fantasy to think about such things but on a psychological and spiritual level this question may be quite revealing.

2006-12-21 04:51:10 · 15 answers · asked by Love of Truth 5

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs.Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me .When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me,He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me.I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me .He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U.NOW HE SENT 3 MESGS ON MY..

2006-12-21 04:44:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 04:28:01 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6

I personally would say yes and no...there are always better jobs...and even though you may love your mate there is a chance you could be even better with someone else...

But what causes us as humans to always look in the next pasture and see the green grass and want it even if we have a wonderful pasture of our own...?

2006-12-21 04:25:33 · 21 answers · asked by I'm Loving Life 3

I recently met a new friend. This person does not dislike visual beauty. She is simply unable to recognize or appreciate art or fashion. Beauty and art are not in her visual or verbal vocabulary. It is similiar to being tone deaf or color blind.

A few years ago I came across a word that referred to people who are unable to see beauty. I dismissed the word because I could not relate. But now I realize there are many people who are not able to relate to physical/visual beauty. However, they do relate to physical force and power.

2006-12-21 04:14:26 · 5 answers · asked by Giogian S 1

If there are tears of joy and you cry when you're sad, are there such things as tears of fear, anger, oooor....?

2006-12-21 04:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by BlytheLyssa 3

Or is that a paranoid suggestion?

2006-12-21 03:55:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously. No judgements. I am just curious as to what is not getting done because we are doing this!

2006-12-21 03:54:15 · 18 answers · asked by stepheaux 1

Can clothes somehow absorb good and bad energy from some fortunate or unfortunate events and keep it?
I have a couple of clothes that are definitely 'unhappy'. Though I tried hard not to believe it and even made myself put them on regardless of anything I found they worked every time. I had a tank that I actually wore only twice and both times really bad things happened to my bf which affected our relationship too. I also have a sweater - sad things always happen when it's on me.

2006-12-21 03:47:54 · 14 answers · asked by Miranda G 2

well all the above has happened to me which is why im asking, i've had to deal with growing up being shy and scared like everything i did was wrong, as i got older i felt a bit more normal but at 18 if i even dressed like i was going some place nice i felt like everyone was staring and new what had happened to me when i was younger. Other things i go through seem to tie in also

2006-12-21 03:47:53 · 8 answers · asked by Lena 1

2006-12-21 03:46:13 · 4 answers · asked by pouabou loémba c 1

So how can they still speak with words that have basic meaning?

2006-12-21 03:45:40 · 2 answers · asked by ZZ 4

I've tried counseling with counselors, psychologist, social workers, and talking just makes things worse. I've tried medications, at least a dozen different ones, probably more. I have had some serious side effects without any improvement.
On my own... I've tried controlling my thoughts and I've tried just letting them be. I've tried getting along with my family and peers. I've tried standing up for myself. I've tried everything I can think of. I've tried a personal spirituality. I've tried going to church. You wouldn't believe me if I told you how bad the church thing ended.
I'm still miserable. I hate what goes on in my head. No voices or anything. They're just thoughts. I can tell the difference because one of the meds I took made me hear voices.
In relation to the world around me, the worst thing about everything is my financial situation. I have a part time job, but there aren't any more that 12 hours available any given week. I can't seem to get another job.
Any suggestions?

2006-12-21 03:45:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was dreaming that I was with my cousin in a boutique...and we were looking for clothes...and those clothes were with a lot of colors and were on sale.There was a guy that I knwe, and I was ignoring him...then I helped his sister to learn e poem. After that I saw myself at my house and we were preparing dinner...we had food and the house was glittering ...it looked so good...and there I saw the guy that I'm in crush with him(but he doesn't know in real life)...and he had violet pants, and yellow shirt...and he said go help your mother or something...and when I asked him why did he yell at me he said ...I don't know I might like you....


Can someone interpret this dream...please.. I would appreciate that a lot.

Thanks.

2006-12-21 03:42:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs.Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me .When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me,He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me.I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me .He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U.NOW HE SENT 3 MESGS ON MY..

2006-12-21 03:40:45 · 11 answers · asked by ciendriella 1

2006-12-21 03:29:45 · 4 answers · asked by susan 1

2006-12-21 03:24:21 · 9 answers · asked by Tim 3

I am 29, i have 3 kids & own with my fiance an electrical contracting co. I pretty much write my own schedule.

I wake up every single day rushing, running, feeling overwhelmed, stressing out, worring that im not going to get everything done today, and just in a bad mood.

I already take Lexapro and my Dr. prescrbed Xanax 5Mg. But i am not going to pop a xanax first thing in the morning or i really wont get everything done. Those are for me to calm down at night.

I dont know why I wake up like this every day !?!

Is this normal to feel like that when you first get up?

It takes me about 2 hours to get my stuff together it seems like. I spend so much time worrying about what ive got to get done that day.

What can i do & is this normal??

2006-12-21 03:22:05 · 2 answers · asked by lisamarie_625 1

2006-12-21 03:19:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What was the last dream you remember having? When was it and what was it?

2006-12-21 02:57:26 · 6 answers · asked by D.O... 3