2006-12-21 05:03:14 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Rabeka♦ 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
For who was wondering: I am compassionate on a depressing level. I spend most of my time worrying about others (especially those I love) being hurt physically and emotionally. I have no self confidence, but I work hard to establish some everyday. I was physically and verbally abused growing up and I'm working on a better relationship with my mother. I am constantly thinking that I'm not doing something right. I find it hard to trust, and am constantly paranoid that my boyfriend isn't faithful to me, even though he has never in our 3 years shown me otherwise. I am overly kind and often get walked all over. I am extremely creative and wish I still had more time to express myself through art and poetry. I'm a hopeless romantic. All in all, my passion is all-consuming and I create my own hurt. For being so compassionate and kind I find it appalling that sometimes I am very selfish. My family doesn't have much money, so I really don't take things for granted. I spend a lot of time isolated
2006-12-21 14:15:17 · update #1
I think others see me for my beauty. It's something I'm not used to. I have, what I call, the "Ugly Ducking Syndrom," where I went from cute, but with glasses and the whole shabang back in the day, then blossomed into a pretty young lady. I still feel like the Ugly Duck inside though. Men think of me as a piece of *** and women think of me as intimidating, maybe a *****. I've had girls tell me months after meeting me how wonderful and kind hearted I am, and they apologize for thinking otherwise. I've grown to accept the jealousy and it encourages me to be more kind and to prove the goodness I have, but overall, it hasn't been good for my condfidence. I'm a model, so that doesn't help my image to others. Once a person allows themself to see who I really am, they see the kind, creative, intelligent, loving soul that I really am.
2006-12-21 14:18:58 · update #2
I view myself as intelligent, self-assured, responsible, predictable, lustful, introspective, lazy, and a good communicator.
Since I believe I have a pretty accurate self-perception, I think other people who know me well view me the same way. Very few people know me well, though. I think the great majority of others see me as either withdrawn or haughty (depending on their own POV), capable, introverted, moody, honest, and reliable.
Please add an "Additional Details" paragraph and answer your questions for yourself. I would like to know what someone who thinks to ask such a question thinks of herself.
2006-12-21 06:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know and I will never know. We are an image with more or less substance to the others and they will never tell you with frankness what exactly this image looks like. And frankly I do not care. We are all comedians on stage and life is a big play.
2006-12-21 05:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm often seen as a "class clown" type that has no concerns and just wants fun. And a little rough and offensive.
I'm kinda fun and smart, but mostly a self-conscious, pessimistic, person that is missing something in life and has no self esteem and is socially retarded.
2006-12-21 05:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I am a funny kind hearted person. People view me in a way that makes me feel fun loved.
2006-12-21 05:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I view myself as a good willed person with constant efforts and attempts to do the necessary deeds, but always having trouble expressing/showing it as others want.
I think others view me as an angry person :)
2006-12-21 05:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Zenithia Victora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am serious, but considerate and kind-hearted; and I am an introvert who enjoys time alone. I think others would view me as very shy, quiet, modest, and reserved...but also very quick-witted and humorous upon getting to know me.
2006-12-21 05:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'm a split decision. Other than that, I am whatever others say I am because that's how they see me. I mean If I wasn't, then why would I say I am?
2006-12-21 05:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I view myself as a loving, caring, sexy person... But because some people don't care for my lifestyle and because they're idiots, some might think I'm going to hel.l...
Only because I'm gay...
2006-12-21 05:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Alex J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've heard of wolves in sheeps clothing? Well, I'm a sheep in wolves clothing
2006-12-21 09:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by lefty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i am nice. people describe me as sweet, sarcastic, goofy and friendly. i don't really know the bad things they say about me
2006-12-21 05:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋