Psychology - December 2006

Hi,
im trying my best to be good and friendly so that people will like me. I dont want to be popular or successful, i just want to make others feel good and relaxed when we talk. Are there some excercises, positive affirmations, meditations... that would help me?
Id like to do voluntary work but there are no possibilities in my area.

2006-12-25 01:30:53 · 11 answers · asked by eldridan 3

2006-12-25 01:13:56 · 11 answers · asked by zuma 1

2006-12-25 00:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by STORMY K 3

I could really use one right now.Thanks.

2006-12-25 00:54:53 · 13 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7

2006-12-25 00:43:40 · 11 answers · asked by mynah_3 2

why are people born?
what`s our purpose on this world?

2006-12-25 00:42:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday I was thinking about my Dad who died just a few months ago. The funeral home person came to my house with a candle that had my Dad's name, picture, date of birth and death on it. They arrived minutes after I got home from the cemetary. Now this morning, I open my presents from my kids. One got me a James Brown CD. I got online and learned that James Brown died this morning. I have so many of these coincidences happening I wonder, Is this some kind of sign for me?

2006-12-25 00:38:25 · 11 answers · asked by redwidow 5

do people ever change? like the selfishness... dishonesty..... do they ever go away from a person?

2006-12-24 23:32:36 · 15 answers · asked by rania75 3

How do you best find courage to do things that you are unsure of? It could be any thing that you are timid about: love, career, taking risks, defending you or others, and so on.

2006-12-24 23:31:03 · 14 answers · asked by wizzard_bane 2

Can severe malnutrition as a young teen stunt your brain developement?

2006-12-24 23:14:50 · 6 answers · asked by Claudia P 1

2006-12-24 23:09:51 · 4 answers · asked by G A 5

i tried many things but i want advises from teenagers like me who tried stuff to build their sel esteem and WORKED wit them...

2006-12-24 23:09:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 23:06:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 23:03:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this is a subjective thing but alot of people (me very much included) enjoy music alot more when their drunk.
i enjoy is in everyday life but when i'm drunk i love it so much more.
what is the reason for this. is it something to do with the slowing down of the brain???

2006-12-24 22:56:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 16 and I've been rly sad 4 the last 3 months n i've been self harming I've been starving myself lately and feel sad all the time. I used to be rly rly strong but this time everything feels wrong and my world is upside down. I hate myself, I feel i dnt deserve ppl's love n dont deserve the things i've been given... I feel so bad all the time and i somehow cant push my self up this time... plz help me..i need to build self confidence quickly be4 i drown... i feel myself getting swalowed in a black hole...plz help

2006-12-24 22:27:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

everytime im in a group of people i often feel insecure and so small that is why i prefer being alone than to socialize with them......i am so concern with my self image and i dont want people saying bad thing about me. I am very submissive wherein i always try to please other people and project good traits because i am afraid they wont like me.
So what should i do to raise my self esteem, emotional intelligence and overcome my shyness?

2006-12-24 21:26:04 · 9 answers · asked by LoneLy_SoUL 2

2006-12-24 21:15:59 · 4 answers · asked by Smile Everyday 1

I know in my head that having sex will not solve any problems. But I feel like I want to use it as a tool to feel some sort of belongingness but in my head I don't think it will work. I have isolated myself not by choice, but by feeling too embarassed to relate my concerns to patronizing relatives who appear so put together and happy and unwilling to share their vulnerabilities with me if they have any and the most patronizing of friends. Once again, when I need help, I feel lost as to where to find it and I am at my wits end, so I practice long-suffering until some providential series of occurences resolves the problem naturally in due time.

When will 'the way it is' with them match 'the way it is' with you? How do you learn to love yourself when you've never been shown how? I have my life in front of me? what do I have to lose but only time? I often marvel at people in their eighties, how they carry light hearts and keep simple perspectives on life. I'm 32.
In my shoes.

2006-12-24 21:11:12 · 3 answers · asked by good luck 1

Vikror Frankl: "Everything can be taken from man but one thing: tha last of human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."
Agree or disagree?

2006-12-24 20:40:22 · 7 answers · asked by Mr Dog 2

2006-12-24 20:16:40 · 6 answers · asked by Amir 1

2006-12-24 20:08:24 · 14 answers · asked by Amir 1

2006-12-24 20:08:01 · 8 answers · asked by wishvesh 1

Been reading some questions re: suicide. If you feel depressed, have thoughts of suicide or have a plan on how to commit suicide, please call your local suicide crisis hot-line. And if you are really serious, call 911.

2006-12-24 19:52:50 · 4 answers · asked by Friend 1

I am so often give seminars in some places. That is why people know more me than I do for them. I dont have any methodology to memorize people's name who have met me someday in somewhere.

2006-12-24 19:52:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 19:49:35 · 21 answers · asked by young guy 2

I really want to express my physical feelings for my girlfriend again, but for the last 4 months or so she has had absolutely no sex drive. we love each other very much and we have had great sex in the past, but recently she hasn't been interested in sex. she claims that she feels morally bad about it. What can i do?

2006-12-24 19:48:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

personality is what i go for in a person,so to find out you can trust someone u think uv never met,but at the same the same person you thought you knew lets u down so badly how would you look at yourself as a person?

2006-12-24 19:45:37 · 4 answers · asked by imanuttytartok 1

and you end up doing what they wanted you to do without you even knowing it?

Also how can this be overcome?

2006-12-24 19:40:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who is spending the holidays away from the ones they love most!! I know i am :(
and why??

2006-12-24 19:34:10 · 3 answers · asked by mojoekai_usmc 1