Psychology - October 2006

2006-10-10 18:48:38 · 14 answers · asked by Kitty L 3

While I was on "vacation" with the girl that I loved she told me that she was raped once by a guy within the year. I had a huge fit. I flipped. Rape has always effected me more than anything else. It hits a button that sends me through an endless rage. I thought that was bad enough. But later on I stumbled upon a writing that stated that it was not once. It was in fact an ongoing thing. She was in a relationship with someone for two years and during that period of time she was raped 10 times through-out it and forced into oral and anal. I found this out and I snapped even worse. Weeks later and I'm still randomly ambushed by images in my head of it happening. I don't know how to deal with it. I feel often like I'm about to lash out, an overwhelming urge to pound relentlessly on something. This one man ruined what I thought was a mutual first time and he has permanently emotionally scarred her, I don't know how to help her, I'm filled with grief and anger. I don't know what to do.

2006-10-10 18:36:02 · 16 answers · asked by Corey C. 1

2006-10-10 18:29:40 · 8 answers · asked by melon_rose 2

2006-10-10 18:29:08 · 7 answers · asked by anonymoususer987876 3

Although, violence does sound grand at times. Still, anti-social behavior is hurting anyone so what's the problem? People act like it is some sort of disease.

2006-10-10 18:16:10 · 10 answers · asked by NONAME 3

somebody who is in love with the other person can actually sense greatly if
he/she are going to bump into each other.Could it be that the both of them have connection?

2006-10-10 18:11:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-10 18:07:35 · 18 answers · asked by melon_rose 2

Electric Blue Violin? and is their a name for that sort of phobia?

I bought it new from the manufacturer, and it came without the bridge attached. When I tired to assemble and tune it, it snapped out and hit me in the eye and ever since, I can't tune it, so I can't play it.

I do believe I am actually afraid of it! I have a similar kind of PTSS situation concerning balloons too.

How do you get over fears like that?

2006-10-10 18:04:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it worth the money? Could you or better yet would you do it?

2006-10-10 17:56:32 · 14 answers · asked by Angileque 2

generally speaking

2006-10-10 17:56:23 · 13 answers · asked by JewSavesWorld 1

What method of research would you find useful to determine if inheritance (genes) determines intelligence more than environment (experience/surroundings).

2006-10-10 17:46:39 · 5 answers · asked by Britt** 2

2006-10-10 17:27:16 · 14 answers · asked by anonymoususer987876 3

2006-10-10 17:17:59 · 3 answers · asked by me 5

they know it all and try to deman others on here by attempting to show their intelligence?

2006-10-10 17:16:07 · 16 answers · asked by Milton Egbert 1

2006-10-10 16:59:03 · 3 answers · asked by cdrfish100 1

Attraction DOES NOT REQUIRE pheromones. When you see a person of an opposite gender (or for homosexuals, the same gender) then your brain automatically analyzes their appearance to sense certain characteristics. For example, shape of their face, shape of their body, breast size, body posture, color of eyes, etc. If the other person seems attractive by your brain's standards (which are governed by evolution) then you will feel an intense attraction to that person.

And the same should be true for the other person.

The question is: at the same time?

If this is true for both persons, can you say that this is the real love at first sight?

What are the probabilities that this occur?

2006-10-10 16:51:33 · 4 answers · asked by Pepito P 1

Would holding onto a past relationship and comparing the current one to the old one be a fear of intimacy? Or crushing on someone you know you can't have ex.) because they are married , could that be a fear of intimacy? Or having lots of lovers but none that you are close to, is that a fear of intimacy. Ultimately what does it mean? Why is there a fear of intimacy?

2006-10-10 16:37:10 · 2 answers · asked by primamaria04 5

how can you get a woman to forgive you for a little lie you told over 3 yrs ago is it possiable. I am having a problem with my girl she still holds a gruge over me over a lie about my ex wife of when i finally got with another woman. It had nothing to do with her. How can i make this better it has now been 6 yrs and I get attitude when i ask her her feelings about me or when we go out she always wants one of our friends to go it isn't ever just her and I. how can I change this or is this relationship over. I love her with all of me but i don't know what to do

2006-10-10 16:21:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love psychology, and I have a B.A. in psychology and a M.A. in school psychology. But I really want to research/help people with major problems (serial killers, psychotics, etc.). Where should I start? Do I need a M.A. in forensic psy.?

2006-10-10 16:18:00 · 2 answers · asked by Jess 5

2006-10-10 16:03:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yet another unusual question from unusual me! ;D

I've noticed for years that babies and toddlers frequently point at me for no apparent reason, and toddlers and small children frequently stare at me with great interest. (And NO, there's nothing physically odd about my face, hair or clothing that would make me stand out like this).

I've also noticed that animals (people's pets) who are unfriendly to strangers, generally LOVE me from the very first time they meet me. Some even do things for me that they normally only do for their owners, which flips the owners out. *chuckle*

It's said that young children and animals are the best judges of character, but I can't help but wonder if something more is going on. Perhaps they can see auras that most of us can't see? Or perhaps there's something else they pick up empathically or even with a sixth sense? I do NOT know, but I'm very curious! :)

2006-10-10 15:49:05 · 7 answers · asked by scary shari 5

how do you deal with someone that has a cyberporn addictoin?

2006-10-10 15:38:50 · 3 answers · asked by jeff d 1

2006-10-10 15:38:29 · 6 answers · asked by Becca 6

Why are doctors tring to cause a cure for this effect?

2006-10-10 15:14:10 · 2 answers · asked by Mouse 1

2006-10-10 15:07:05 · 2 answers · asked by melon_rose 2

Why is depression only recognized and treated mostly if the person is suicidal or a threat to others physically? I can tell you that I have been EXTREMELY depressed and in pain. But still in my right mind enough to not harm myself or others. What about the individual? What about the pain they are in? Why is that not important unless they are going to do something harmful to their self or others? People should be treated for depression for the fact that they are depressed. Not just because they may be a danger.

2006-10-10 15:02:55 · 2 answers · asked by AveGirl 5

I've never been to one, but I need one now. I don't know anyone that knows one. I hate the idea of just guessing which one is right from looking through the phone book! Help please, and serious answers only please.

2006-10-10 14:54:28 · 6 answers · asked by Starscape 6

I am feeling so angry with a person but I can do anything to that person. But I know I need to vent out. Any suggestions?

2006-10-10 14:52:39 · 17 answers · asked by joy_chia 1

I know lots of things I can exchange.

2006-10-10 14:49:10 · 3 answers · asked by Paul Sabre 4

You know how stars always say that monogamy is not in our nature and blah blah blah... Well, I believe that it is... We're not like animals and it's not impossible to stay monogamous. It's just all in the person.. But I think more people should stay monogamous (while in a relationship.. not saying to marry someone or anything) but cheating is just retarded.. If you don't want to stay with just one girl or guy why be in a relationship. You'll only wind up hurting someone or getting hurt by someone..

So what do you guys think?

2006-10-10 14:37:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous