How can I kick my own @$$ and force myself to *do* the things I'm scared of??

Answer 1

Just by beliving in urself

Answer 2

You've just asked one of the hardest-to-answer questions. Give yourself an A-plus. Fear is one of the greatest motivators and non-motivators know to man. It's OK to be afraid of open elevator shafts, but there's something psychological hampering you if you fear making friends or saving money for your future ( only two, for example). The best approach to overcoming fear is to really and honestly understand why you're afraid. Without seeking consoling, a little soul searching can help. Look into yourself for deeper answers, without settling for trite, surface reasons. Take some time by yourself and be serious, separating reality from fantasy. We often fear things which never happen, but fear them enough to hold ourselves back. From you question, I'm guessing you're close to finding your answer.

Answer 3

A wise person once said, "To find our destiny, we must follow our fear." Easier said than done, I admit. It could very well be the next step in your growth. Tackle one thing that frightens you and, when you achieve that --you need not do it perfectly-you should have more confidence to do the next thing you are afraid of doing.

Answer 4

Have you tried writing lists that are designed to make you do some of the things you don't want to do as well as some you do? Like this: http://www.quazen.com/Home/Personal-Organization/Positive-List-Making.536

Answer 5

everybody gets fearful now and then, you just have to tell you're self I am I can and go ahead.fear is just not trusting the unknown as well we should but , just take the plunge..

Answer 6

good question many of us don't do the things we should because of fear....why not take baby steps and keep building up the the bigger issues.

Answer 7

take a step away from yourself and see if you like what u see.

Answer 8

simple dont think just do