Gender Studies - September 2007

Take a look at this timeline:

http://www.dpsinfo.com/women/history/timeline.html

Is there anything here that stands out to you? Any thoughts? Was this information something you already were familiar with? Women: after reading this, how did it make you feel?

2007-09-30 21:28:48 · 10 answers · asked by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7

what is your insight on the sexual violence against women in some popular songs?

2007-09-30 19:11:35 · 8 answers · asked by rubz 1

For me, the first choice is Jimmy Stewart, or rather a great many of the characters he's played.

Sophisticated without being smarmy or stuff, intellectual without being pompous, gentle and self-deprecating but quite capable of passion and even wrath when circumstances call for it, able to show vulnerability (like spending a whole movie in a wheelchair or dealing with a crippling fear of heights) while still showing inner strength, able to light-heartedly answer jibes and able to poke fun at pretension without being mean-spirited, protective but also comfortable having intelligent, capable female friends he can laugh with...

To me, he's in many ways an ideal to strive for.

2007-09-30 18:19:25 · 9 answers · asked by Gnu Diddy! 5

2007-09-30 18:18:30 · 15 answers · asked by teeleecee 6

Should we start a think tank?

2007-09-30 17:44:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to the doctor on Friday for my monthly check-up and examination. When I got there, a female doctor(who is quiet attractive and beautiful) gives me a full body examination. When she reach down and touches/examine my penis, I get a full erection, it feel so nice when she examine me there(best feeling ever). I feel a little embarrass, but it also feel sooooooo good. I almost orgasm on her. She didn't say anything when she saw my erection, she just smile a little.

So feminist, please help me out, am I objectifying this female doctor?

2007-09-30 17:00:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im sick of certain people assuming that we,[ feminists ], hate men. I actually love men and my partner is the definition of an alpa male. I want my man to b a man and I value our differences, we don't always agree on everything, infact we are polar opposites, but I respect our differences and enjoy his insights. What about u?

2007-09-30 16:39:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Back in my not-so-wise years (younger than 25), I was appalled at the thought that some families began arranging marriages at birth.
However, with the divorce rate being what it is, and the government spending millions to take care of out of wedlock kids, I've since looked at the practice differently.
I can look at most american females and draw the conclusion that most do not have a clue about which guys to stay away from. If her family was stuck with the burden of raising her kid, shouldn't they have a say in whom she should marry?
How many women (over 25 please) wish that they had listened to their parents?
My personal view is that it should be a two way veto. If she hates her parent's selection, she shouldn't be forced into it. If her parents can't stand the guy who may leave their daughter a divorced single mom, then mom and dad should also have a say.

2007-09-30 15:52:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've noticed, (w/ emphasis on I) that girls are doing little acts of chivalry. I was walking back to my dorm, and when I approached the door, a girl inside opened the door for me (not because she wanted to leave, she was having a conversation with a friend). Now I'm curious, is opening doors for guys a developing trend for girls or is it just the product of increasing gender equality?

2007-09-30 15:50:36 · 22 answers · asked by diaoman 1

I was watching an episode of the UK series Judge John Deed. As a side story to the main issue, the barrister - a female QC - was torn between staying in England which she loved and was familiar with, or leaving for South Africa for the sake of her foster son. She eventually decided to stay in the UK.

While watching it, I was fascinated by the emotion involved and as a lawyer myself, I could certainly understand why she was reluctant to leave a successful career.

However, as someone who was raised without a mother, I also believe that woman should put as first priority her children. Therefore, I also found myself disapproving of the fact that she eventually decided to stay behind.

Your opinions on this dilemma? Is a woman a mother first when she has young children, or is she still her own person?

2007-09-30 13:57:20 · 22 answers · asked by Lighthouse 5

I know this is a broad question but there so many issues facing women around the world. Their testimony counting as a half of a person or being automatically eliminated (in Iran), stoning to death for "supposed" adultery, barbaric female circumcisions , illiteracy, honor killings, child prostitution etc.

We often concern ourselves with the inequalities in the west, while those women fighting for their lives and a decent standard of living, aren't getting much support.

2007-09-30 13:28:48 · 17 answers · asked by Lioness 6

Darlin'
Honey
Sugar
Baby

Whatever term you choose - women get feisty when you call them those names, but sure enough, they're the same women who'll call you Darlin'

Not that I really mind - I appreciate the friendliness. But it bugs me that women seek to control the language that other men use.

Comments?

2007-09-30 12:18:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please be detailed.

2007-09-30 10:22:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

And also the fact that she is aprt of the Bush administration and a member of the "new crazies" (neo conservatives).

2007-09-30 10:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

last night while out for a few drinks (as you do) i stepped outside to have a smoke where i was cautioned by two police officers remarking about how was i was dressed and that i was a bit worse for wear. i mean i was only wearing knee boots a boob tube and a micro miniwheres the problem in that

2007-09-30 09:42:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-30 09:31:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean: A)they must be insecure with themselves
B)Had some relationship issues in the past
C)They really do fear women
D)Just because they can't get any
E)All of the above and more

2007-09-30 09:11:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or are they about equal?

2007-09-30 08:43:31 · 18 answers · asked by hayley 1

I have noticed that most women get suspicious when you give them a nice compliment and think you have other intentions. When a woman compliments me, it's usually followed by "I'm not trying to hit on you, I love men."

I, personally, love and appreciate a woman's body, although it doesn't do much for me sexually since I want a man for that. I love paintings that highlight a woman's sensuality in a tasteful way.

Do we automatically equal appreciation of beauty with sex?

2007-09-30 07:16:21 · 17 answers · asked by Lioness 6

Personally I think certain gender differences have to be accepted, there is no such thing as ABSOLUTE equality but I'm confined to certain specifications

1) What is Marginalization?
Marginalization is a post colonial term defined as “the overt or covert trends within societies whereby those perceived as lacking desirable traits tend to be excluded by wider society, ostracized as undesirable”. Marginalization causes individuals who have certain distinguishing features in society to live adversely due to unequal treatment. Marginalization puts in place the conditions which limit what an individual can achieve.

2) Marginalization of Women in the Workplace.
For women who strive to succeed, rising to the top can be a lonely journey. If they are assertive they are seen as not feminine. If they are kind, they are seen as incompetent and unable to step to the task. When in a leadership role, they have to fight off the stereotypes and preconceived notions about them.

2007-09-30 07:14:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example, Is it ok if I meet a new attractive woman and tell her that all I want from her is her friendship with some sexual benifits on the side. Are these liberated women of America ready for this kind of honesty!

2007-09-30 06:16:37 · 19 answers · asked by McArthur L 1

2007-09-30 04:00:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

it isn't my way to list out names but I think y'all know who you are...

I just wanted to say thank you :)

anyone else want to join me?

2007-09-30 02:49:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

.....that I wouldn't tolerate myself?

2007-09-30 01:47:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I realize that it was the passage of Amendment XIX to the Constitution.

It passed by winning more than two-thirds of the votes in the Senate (all men) and more than half the voters in 36 states voted for it. In many of those states only men had the vot and in those where women already had the vote, it was because previously men had voted for it.

Why did the patriarchy allow this? Why did so many men vote for it?

2007-09-30 00:16:46 · 15 answers · asked by Gnu Diddy! 5

For me, what a man should take from feminism is that the duty is not just to protect women from the mugger or rapist hiding in the bushes, but from the abusive spouse or partner, and from those who would seek to deprive them of educational and professional opportunities and control over their own bodies.

Listening to what women have to say means being better informed out the sorts of protections they want and need, rather than assuming on your own what's best for them.

I am sure that some will call this protectiveness "sexist" while others will try to say that, with social changes pursued by feminism, women have forfeited the right to such protection.

But as far as I am concerned, it doesn't matter society says, it doesn't matter if it's appreciated or praised, any decent man should feel protective of women and should act accordingly.

2007-09-29 22:17:48 · 37 answers · asked by Gnu Diddy! 5

To help lower the % of children who were raised by a father who is unaware he actually isn't the father, otherwise known as Paternity Fraud, usually from infidelity.

Please read the articles prior to answering(estimated 10%+ of children are fathered by men who falsely believe that they are the father)
Paternity Fraud articles: http://worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=48871
http://www.fathersforlife.org/fatherhood/paternity_1.htm

2007-09-29 19:14:05 · 22 answers · asked by Nep 6

it isn't my way to list out names but I think y'all know who you are...

I just wanted to say thank you :)

anyone else want to join me?

2007-09-29 19:04:34 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ ~Sigy the Arctic Kitty~♥ 7

and she knows that you have many problems,you have addictions you have her berated her and things of that nature and she is still wanting your attention and still trying to smile and be polite and cordial,what does that say?

2007-09-29 18:22:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious. I allow all opinions to be aired on my own site, most other MRA sites & blogs also allow feminist opinions to be aired... so why do feminists block people they assume they will disagree with, why do feminists sites ban & delete members who aren't unpleasant - just different in opinions/values, etc.
What is wrong with feminists - aren't they 'strong, independant women' who 'can have it all'? Or are they (those who do the blocking) just blatant cowards?

2007-09-29 18:14:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous