Gender Studies - March 2007

Some feminists have stated that they like being treated “like a woman” or a “lady.” Others have stated that they don’t EXPECT any special treatment, but do enjoy it.

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I assume this means that they want to be treated somehow different than a man would/should be treated. At the same time, most feminists will say that men and women should receive “equal treatment.”

Explain how one can want “equal treatment” and at the same time like (not necessary expect) to be “treated like a woman” or “lady”, evidently differently than a man.

(Obviously, this does not mean just with "courtesy and respect", since all humans are deserving of that.)

Is “equal” a misnomer for what they want?

Or, are there exceptions to this desire for equal treatment?

If so, who gets to chose what those exceptions are?

2007-03-17 08:07:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it possible to determine with 100% certainty that two people have produced exactly the same quality and quantity of work?

Even in sales or factory work people may be judged subjectively on factors such as teamwork, management effectiveness, and initiative.

When that is the case, how is it possible to determine with certainty that two “unequal” people have produced exactly the same quantity and quality of work?

And should, therefore, be paid exactly the same amount of money.

Lastly, who should be responsible for ensuring that t workers that occupy the same position (and ostensibly perform at the same level) are paid the same?

The company, the worker, or the government?

2007-03-17 07:46:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

which ones do you prefer?

2007-03-17 07:25:02 · 8 answers · asked by faniente2006 3

2007-03-17 07:24:56 · 15 answers · asked by poshnosh 2

what do you believe makes a woman a real woman.
And with that I mean nothing physical.....

2007-03-17 07:05:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering is it turn off for the female if the guy is still a virgin?

2007-03-17 06:59:09 · 7 answers · asked by john t 1

2007-03-17 06:52:17 · 18 answers · asked by shaboom2k 4

2007-03-17 06:47:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were really fighting for survival insteat of fighting to be successful? If we lived in a time where we had to hunt for our food everyday. If we lived when the threat of being eaten alive by a wild animal was a common reality. Where men and women actually depended on each other to perform certain jobs to ensure the survival of the community.

2007-03-17 06:40:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are less women in high political positions and economic positions as men and they tend to be underpaid but aren't men equally discriminated on a whole.
1. Men are required to sign up for selective service.
2. Women receive lighter sentences than males and are less likely to be sentenced to the death penalty for the same crime.
3. Child custody and divorce laws tend to favor women more than men.

So as a whole arent men and women equally discriminated?

2007-03-17 06:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

They tell you you're the perfect guy, that normally they can find something wrong with the guy but you're different. And they say they like you ALOT, but they still go after the guy who is dating someone else, who they still have feelings for. The way I see it that makes the decision rather simple. If the guy you like is dating someone else, and there is another guy who you think is perfect right in front of you, what's there to question? I personally think it was a cop-out of the relationship, but who am I to know for sure.

2007-03-17 05:49:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you really gain? After all, you can't take it with you!

Personally I think that you make a bigger impact on society by raising your children to be productive citizens.

2007-03-17 05:35:32 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6

Women rightfully point out that they are not paid equally as men in the corporate world.

However, when will it be pointed out that women have to meet easier standards to be in the military, police force, or in a firefighter.

I don't mind men bashing when it is deserved (i.e. unequal pay), but a lot of men are losing jobs involving physical strength (i.e. cops, firefighters) to women who are less qualified simply b/c women have demanded a certain percentage of these jobs even though they are less qualified than the men.

These are the double standards that make men bitter toward women.

2007-03-17 05:33:30 · 8 answers · asked by mcentee34 2

For Baby Yaga and others who believe biolgoy is a myth, if there was no gender classification in college basketball, how many women would actually be playing college ball, ab out 5%. Can anyone name 20 college women players who are good enough to be on the men's team.

2007-03-17 05:23:38 · 2 answers · asked by mcentee34 2

The status of women in Islam is often the target of attacks in the secular media. The ‘hijaab’ or the Islamic dress is cited by many as an example of the ‘subjugation’ of women under Islamic law. Before we analyze the reasoning behind the religiously mandated ‘hijaab’, let us first study the status of women in societies before the advent of Islam


1. In the past women were degraded and used as objects of lust

The following examples from history amply illustrate the fact that the status of women in earlier civilizations was very low to the extent that they were denied basic human dignity:

1. Babylonian Civilization:
The women were degraded and were denied all rights under the Babylonian law. If a man murdered a woman, instead of him being punished, his wife was put to death.

2. Greek Civilization:
Greek Civilization is considered the most glorious of all ancient civilizations. Under this very ‘glorious’ system, women were deprived of all rights and were looked down upon. In Greek mythology, an ‘imaginary woman’ called ‘Pandora’ is the root cause of misfortune of human beings. The Greeks considered women to be subhuman and inferior to men. Though chastity of women was precious, and women were held in high esteem, the Greeks were later overwhelmed by ego and sexual perversions. Prostitution became a regular practice amongst all classes of Greek society.

3. Roman Civilization:
When Roman Civilization was at the zenith of its ‘glory’, a man even had the right to take the life of his wife. Prostitution and nudity were common amongst the Romans.

4. Egyptian Civilization:
The Egyptian considered women evil and as a sign of a devil.

5. Pre-Islamic Arabia:
Before Islam spread in Arabia, the Arabs looked down upon women and very often when a female child was born, she was buried alive.


2. Islam uplifted women and gave them equality and expects them to maintain their status.

Islam uplifted the status of women and granted them their just rights 1400 years ago. Islam expects women to maintain their status.

Hijaab for men

People usually only discuss ‘hijaab’ in the context of women. However, in the Glorious Qur’an, Allah (swt) first mentions ‘hijaab’ for men before ‘hijaab’ for the women. The Qur’an mentions in Surah Noor:

"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do."
[Al-Qur’an 24:30]

The moment a man looks at a woman and if any brazen or unashamed thought comes to his mind, he should lower his gaze.

Hijaab for women.

The next verse of Surah Noor, says:

" And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons..."
[Al-Qur’an 24:31]


3. Six criteria for Hijaab.

According to Qur’an and Sunnah there are basically six criteria for observing hijaab:

1. Extent:

The first criterion is the extent of the body that should be covered. This is different for men and women. The extent of covering obligatory on the male is to cover the body at least from the navel to the knees. For women, the extent of covering obligatory is to cover the complete body except the face and the hands upto the wrist. If they wish to, they can cover even these parts of the body. Some scholars of Islam insist that the face and the hands are part of the obligatory extent of ‘hijaab’.

All the remaining five criteria are the same for men and women.

2. The clothes worn should be loose and should not reveal the figure.

3. The clothes worn should not be transparent such that one can see through them.

4. The clothes worn should not be so glamorous as to attract the opposite sex.

5. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the opposite sex.

6. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the unbelievers i.e. they should not wear clothes that are specifically identities or symbols of the unbelievers’ religions.


4. Hijaab includes conduct and behaviour among other things

Complete ‘hijaab’, besides the six criteria of clothing, also includes the moral conduct, behaviour, attitude and intention of the individual. A person only fulfilling the criteria of ‘hijaab’ of the clothes is observing ‘hijaab’ in a limited sense. ‘Hijaab’ of the clothes should be accompanied by ‘hijaab’ of the eyes, ‘hijaab’ of the heart, ‘hijaab’ of thought and ‘hijaab’ of intention. It also includes the way a person walks, the way a person talks, the way he behaves, etc.


5. Hijaab prevents molestation

The reason why Hijaab is prescribed for women is mentioned in the Qur’an in the following verses of Surah Al-Ahzab:

"O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad); that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such) and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."
[Al-Qur’an 33:59]

The Qur’an says that Hijaab has been prescribed for the women so that they are recognized as modest women and this will also prevent them from being molested.


6. Example of twin sisters

Suppose two sisters who are twins, and who are equally beautiful, walk down the street. One of them is attired in the Islamic hijaab i.e. the complete body is covered, except for the face and the hands up to the wrists. The other sister is wearing western clothes, a mini skirt or shorts. Just around the corner there is a hooligan or ruffian who is waiting for a catch, to tease a girl. Whom will he tease? The girl wearing the Islamic Hijaab or the girl wearing the skirt or the mini? Naturally he will tease the girl wearing the skirt or the mini. Such dresses are an indirect invitation to the opposite sex for teasing and molestation. The Qur’an rightly says that hijaab prevents women from being molested.


7. Capital punishment for the rapists

Under the Islamic shariah, a man convicted of having raped a woman, is given capital punishment. Many are astonished at this ‘harsh’ sentence. Some even say that Islam is a ruthless, barbaric religion! I have asked a simple question to hundreds of non-Muslim men. Suppose, God forbid, someone rapes your wife, your mother or your sister. You are made the judge and the rapist is brought in front of you. What punishment would you give him? All of them said they would put him to death. Some went to the extent of saying they would torture him to death. To them I ask, if someone rapes your wife or your mother you want to put him to death. But if the same crime is committed on somebody else’s wife or daughter you say capital punishment is barbaric. Why should there be double standards?


8. Western society falsely claims to have uplifted women

Western talk of women’s liberalization is nothing but a disguised form of exploitation of her body, degradation of her soul, and deprivation of her honour. Western society claims to have ‘uplifted’ women. On the contrary it has actually degraded them to the status of concubines, mistresses and society butterflies who are mere tools in the hands of pleasure seekers and sex marketeers, hidden behind the colourful screen of ‘art’ and ‘culture’.


9. USA has one of the highest rates of rape

United States of America is supposed to be one of the most advanced countries of the world. It also has one of the highest rates of rape in any country in the world. According to a FBI report, in the year 1990, every day on an average 1756 cases of rape were committed in U.S.A alone. Later another report said that on an average everyday 1900 cases of rapes are committed in USA. The year was not mentioned. May be it was 1992 or 1993. May be the Americans got ‘bolder’ in the following years.

Consider a scenario where the Islamic hijaab is followed in America. Whenever a man looks at a woman and any brazen or unashamed thought comes to his mind, he lowers his gaze. Every woman wears the Islamic hijaab, that is the complete body is covered except the face and the hands upto the wrist. After this if any man commits rape he is given capital punishment. I ask you, in such a scenario, will the rate of rape in America increase, will it remain the same, or will it decrease?


10. Implementation of Islamic Shariah will reduce the rate of rapes

Naturally as soon as Islamic Shariah is implemented positive results will be inevitable. If Islamic Shariah is implemented in any part of the world, whether it is America or Europe, society will breathe easier. Hijaab does not degrade a woman but uplifts a woman and protects her modesty and chastity.
http://www.islamdoor.com/

2007-03-17 05:05:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my relationships, it changes throughout. Like my last ex, who said personality, but went off with another guy who I think doesn't have a very nice character to me, and he is shorter than her. It's a bit weird, I am not sure what women wants anymore.

2007-03-17 04:03:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hear some women complaining that sometimes the less qualified male still gets chosen for the job. How do these women know the man is less qualified in the first place? Have they read their job resume? Or maybe the interviewer knows men are less likely to write about little feats on their resume than women. Or maybe the inerviewer assumed men are better wokers, just like men get higher car insurance because it is assumed they are more aggessive drivers?

What do you think?

2007-03-17 03:28:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Feminists out there....Do
U Feel that the
Current state of feminism is
Killing off people's morals values and reducing advancement of society as a whole. What do
YOU think??

2007-03-17 03:11:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is 'assumed' we are more aggressive drivers, henceforth more dangerous and a risk. This is a broad generalizaion as not all men are aggressive drivers.

Women aren't happy that it is 'assumed' men are better woker than women, henceforth men get paid more. Again this is a generalization as women can be good workers.

Wha do you think?

2007-03-17 02:57:58 · 0 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should some of the laws (divorcing(50% of assets etc)) be changed to allow for more "equality"?? Or is it ok since women are physically the weaker sex hence they should be more protected??

2007-03-17 02:15:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

to get higher up in the coporate ladder??

2007-03-17 01:51:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many of us don't want no part of that mentality and movement that your mothers started in the West sometime back in the 60's or 70's.. Keep it, and stick it where the sun don't shine.. Well, I'm sure for many the sun shines there too ( disgusting ) An empowered woman in the west is another word for a cougar whore. Please, keep your loose ways, and your empowered, egotistical, ill- sophisticated, money spending ways in AMERICA ONLY!

2007-03-17 01:31:29 · 10 answers · asked by Peter W 1

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2007-03-17 01:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by counselor 1

I've been reading up on the alpha personality trait and it seems to explain why jerky *** macho guys usually get the girls. It pretty much makes sense!

2007-03-16 20:47:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

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