In my relationships, it changes throughout. Like my last ex, who said personality, but went off with another guy who I think doesn't have a very nice character to me, and he is shorter than her. It's a bit weird, I am not sure what women wants anymore.
2007-03-17 04:03:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
The best preference will be the package of having both.
However, talking deeper into relationships, it's not about looks or personalities that stands in the way to make a relationship work. It's important that both involved parties accept each other and are willing to work out that relationship. And yah, in every relationship, i believe it always is balance with give and take processes.
PS: (from my fiance)
it's about giving her pleasure...
2007-03-17 04:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by J.a.c.q.© 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One cannot generalize. Women are being so messed around that they don't really know any more. Neither do men because they are being messed around too!
One woman's sharp edge is another woman's dull blade. There is no other way of putting it.
Women used to want a family and a husband and a home. They also wanted to work and somehow that got messed up.
Somewhere along the line scruples, ethics and honesty got lost in many people. I am sorry to say but that is the case. People lie because they think their words will get them out of a situation somehow.
I can only speak for one woman. Me. I can speak of what I want for other women. There is a thing called attraction and that is there or it is not. That attraction can make anyone beautiful! The right personality can make anyone beautiful. Or handsome in their own memorable way.
I like a man who has a good smile, a good wit, taller than me is a must, and a good heart. Oh, and is honourable. My daughters are very beautiful and I raised them to consider geeks a sure fire option better than bad boys. They went through the bad boy stage but thank goodness that is over!
2007-03-17 04:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What I have learned from the magazine "Psychology Today", article "True Love, how to make it last" is that women select their men based off the man's scent. Typically they will prefer a man who smells different from her family (Father & brothers) unless she is pregnant (or on the Birth Control, faking pregnancies).
The begging of the relationship produces a chemical in the brain "Dopamine" (both men and women) creating that "Love Sick" feeling. Dopamine is also produced with alcohol & cocaine. It is a chemical that creates a powerful rush but it is a short-lived chemical reaction. Some get addicted to this rush just like some get addicted to alcohal (Aka Sex Addicts).
Long-term relations result when the dopamine levels normalize and then the brain chemicals "Serotonin" levels take over. Petting your dog or cat also creates serotonin. It is a calming chemical reaction that is long lasting. In some mammals like Dolphins, the serotonin level for their spouses is so strong that if the husband dies, the wife will stop producing serotonin and this will lead the female dolphin to starve to death.
So, now that I've bored you senseless I will tie this into your heart break (I feel your pain). I would guess that your "Ex" has a "Sex addiction" (you don't have to have Sex to have this addiction) she's looking for that "Rush" created by "Dopamine" and this new dude gives her this rush. Meanwhile, you're having your "Serotonin" levels dropping because you're separated from your sweetheart. Your choice now is to find a way to give yourself serotonin (get a pet) or be weak and search for dopamine.
2007-03-17 05:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different. Some believe that looks are more valuable others prefer professional credentials, personality etc. Whatever a person has been taught is a valuable commodity. Some men find women's looks to be the most valuable asset they have. This can be seen by the way wealthy, older men find trophy wives.
2007-03-17 04:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most people would want to be attracted to their man (doesn't mean he has to be a model - there's charm as well, a smile, etc. - and then personality. Personality can also make someone charming. I find most men not very attractive when I see them the first time, but then once I talk to them, I can find them realy cute/handsome, etc!
As to what type of personality we are atracted to, I suppose it all depends on each woman!!! Same for men, you know!
2007-03-17 04:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by Offkey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women i hear talking these days about men usaully
are about how good looking this man or that man is. Then
maybe the personality comes in. For myself i like honesty
and words that come from the heart. If a women is wise
enough she can see it in a mans eyes and feel true meaning
in her heart.
2007-03-17 04:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by shadowtwo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different. But... women are certainly attracted ot good looks, and some are only interested in that. Some want personality, some want a guy who is dangerous, or a guy who is very stable. Every woman is looking for something different in a guy, and the funny part is, just like men, we often don't know what it is we are looking for.
The heart is very fickle.
2007-03-17 04:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Erin Gamer 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I definitely must have an interest in them. yet i bump into appeal stems from personality. so 5 in looks and 10 in personality. I reckon the nature can lead them to seem fairly warm Im 19
2016-11-26 01:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
''In my relationships, it changes throughout. Like my last ex, who said personality, but went off with another guy who I think doesn't have a very nice character to me, and he is shorter than her. It's a bit weird, I am not sure what women wants anymore.''
That's because women say one thing but want another.
2007-03-17 04:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
I am a women and I perfer a smile rather than looks. I like the personality with a nice smile and nice eyes you tell a lot from their eyes.
2007-03-17 04:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋