If I'm generalizing too much then just ignore the question, but for the most part men communicate directly and women don't. Women expect you to guess what they feel, need, want, etc.. without saying it.
Now, this is supposed to me because of brain differences, but is it really? How hard is it to just SAY what you want?
Like if a woman is with her Bf or husband and she sees a necklace she wants, she will not say: "honey, I want you to buy me that necklace"... she will think that in her head but instead she will say: "I really like that necklace".
So ladies, especially feminists, why not just be direct? And if you choose to be indirect, why do you get angry at the man if he doesn't "read your mind"?
Why don't women say what they feel and what they want instead of just expecting people to know? What is the advantege to indirect communication?
2007-08-17
19:41:06
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