i always say that an apology comes from regret, a knowledge that if you went back to do it again you'd do it differently. and so, when someone is in the act, they can't apologize, because if they were really sorry, they'd stop. but that also makes me wonder how God can forgive us when we repent but, being such horrid sinners, we're still sinning AS we repent.
also, when someone says they're sorry for an act that you find them frequently doing, it's hard to believe them because if they say sorry each time, they'd regret it each time. if they did regret it each time they wouldn't do it again.
i dunno, i just got an apology from someone who wasn't only IN the act, but also does the act frequently.
they said "sorry" i said "no you're not, but it's all good" and they said "i am", and i stayed quiet..
anyway just bugs me and i've been trying to sort out my thoughts on apologies.
is there anything you remind yourself of whenever someone says "sorry"?
2007-02-17
19:47:37
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