I have told her time and time again that she should not even be thinking about him in that kind of way coz if anything were to happen, like if they kissed or something, then the feeling would only get stronger and it would eventually end up in disaster. She listens to me but I guess she can't help herself. They have so much in common, in fact, if I didn't know any better I'd say they were brother and sister just by their similar behaviour and personalities. What can I possibly say to this girl so I can get her to understand that she is definately headed down the wrong path? Does anyone out there understand, know or experienced what I'm talking about? Please help me help this girl get over these feelings. Also, she has never had a male family figure in her life, and she just got re-aquainted with this cousin after several years and now they are getting close.Could it be that she just admires him alot? Is this normal?Are there any shrinks out there? I'm really worried about her.
2006-11-05
06:18:22
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ziggystarr1
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