2006-11-05 06:40:43 · 30 answers · asked by maggie 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Learn to be your own best friend,thats what I do.when you get up in the morning,have a routine.Exam[le: get up fix your coffee,breakfast,shower,enjoy reading the paper etc...Plan your day............learn to go places by yourself,and start enjoying your own company..Talk to others while your out.Loneliness is a state of mind,you can be loney in a group of people...instead of going out to eat ,try cooking at home....i have learned to enjoy my time alone,I can go shopping all day by myself and enjoy it,the longer you are alone the more you learn to cope.Just because you are by yourself does not mean you are a lesser person,you are just as impretant as if you had someone there with you.....Good luck
2006-11-05 12:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by slickcut 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oddly enough loneliness is actually a byproduct of your nose. When you do not smell enough of a certain bodily scent other than your own, your body recognizes that you have not been interacting with others. It can be offset by things such as exercise and entertainment but in the end your body wants you to be around others. It's a survival instinct that evolved in us over time. If I were you, I would get out into a populated place for a little while. Hit the mall, spend some time with friends, or just have a run in the park. I hope some of that helps.
2006-11-05 07:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Abyss 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hello Maggie
As a wee hedgehog I have to cope without folk a lot. So I got myself a hobby, I took up rally driving now I go Weeeeeeeeee everytime I go by the nerds next door.
2006-11-05 06:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
By keeping yourself busy. Lonlieness can be soul destroying however, if you learn to like spending time by yourself you can get over it. Start a hobby or two, you will meet people that way.
You could get a companion like a dog who will always show you love.
Keep in touch with old friends, they can help you through some tough times, good friends.
2006-11-05 06:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you centred completely on your aims and objectives and after accomplishing a number of them, you omit something now. Its not in any respect too overdue and dont tell me your lonely !!!! C'mon, how old are you ??? Theres nonetheless lot of time and in basic terms be urself. someone will come alongside. no one might want to be 'taught' a thanks to attend to loneliness...it really is an initiative that is necessary to take by technique of your self, by technique of socialising with human beings of your age crew, assembly up with human beings, theres a hell lot you may want to do. yet each and every thing with a spotlight on your objectives besides. Dont lose sight of that. Why would you should 'sacrifice' 'issues' to prevail ??? Are you saying that in case you had a girlfreind you'll ought to sacrifice diverse issues and that you wont be triumphant ???? Cmon..its not that undesirable, is it ? and then you wont be lonely continuously, it in basic terms seems continuously cos' you've now executed a number of your objectives, and also you experience quite laid decrease back.. Dont attempt too puzzling. enable in basic terms issues take position by technique of itself.
2016-11-28 19:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know Jesus as your best friend. He is with you at all times through the good and the bad. Jesus knows all your emotions...He created them! At times, we are called to be a lone, but not lonely. Ask the Lord to show you! I live a l o n e and I battle this feat each day of my life...and thank you for the question...because today is Sunday...a day that is always a l o n e for me. So, I am going to take my answer to you and put it right in my heart NOW. May God bless both of us! Life is a challenge!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-05 08:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
By realising that relationships are ultimately unfulfilling - by that I mean that no one person can give me all I need and vice-versa..
Therefore I try to do what gives me satisfaction, studying, reading, learning about life, looking after others etc etc etc
So that sense of independence and love of life seems to stave off lonliness..
Then again I do like my own company which probably helps too so I can have company when I want and be alone too when I want.. so like anything when it is a choice it is great but when it is imposed it is a different story..
Enlarge your social network - do voluntary work etc - by giving you will find that it comes back in turn..
Good luck
2006-11-05 06:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
I spend a lot of time on my own.I keep myself occupied and potter around the house,and sadly I come on here a lot.I like clothes shopping,and I find gardening very theraputic.If Im really fed up I decorate to take my mind off things.
2006-11-05 06:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
By staying on Yahoo Answers.
2006-11-05 06:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find some friends,hang out with relatives.
be very friendly at stores or whereever u go,pretty soon people will see u come in everyday or so & will be very friendly to u back.
just be as nice as u can to everyone,while still being cautious about them if u dont know them very well,pretty soon you'll see u will have lots of friends & not be lonely.hope this helps! :)
2006-11-05 06:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by forest lover 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋