I just found out I was pregant a few days ago & I am very unsure. My situation is a bad one and not because of the baby. The father can not be there for the baby, and he thinks an abortion is appropriate because he can't be around and he doesn't want the child to think he is a dead beat. I know how it sounds. But the father simply can not be around for our child, and I am very unsure about raising a child on my own, however, I could never see myself having an abortion. At the same time, I am not ready. & I can not see myself having a child either at this point in my life. But I know that this is a result of two people's actions and not that of my unborn child. & it should not be punished. I dont want to go against the father with the issue, but I'm not backing down for my baby either. Is there any advice on how to get him to see it my way? that this is our child and we can't punish it for our actions.Please share your experiences and give me some advice..I sure could use it.
2007-12-24
04:08:33
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heador26
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