We have been together for six months, but are very committed. We have already spoken of marriage. I'm 31, he's 34. He says he'd have to make too many changes, says he'd have to give up his job (he travels), sell his house (its not right to bring up a child, in his mind). Also, I do not have medical insurance, and he is concerned about the costs. He becomes furious everytime we discuss keeping our child. I did not plan this, it is not how I envisioned things, but since we have been blessed with a child, and I have strong feelings about not wanting an abortion, I just wish I could be excited about becoming a mother. He says he will support me, no matter what decision I make. I would really appreciate any feedback, to help me with this huge and difficult decision. Thank you.
2006-08-20
17:24:24
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