What if your friend only {15} was preg/ and her mom and dad do not know...would you tell them?
2006-08-20 15:52:51 · 24 answers · asked by βεℓℓα ツ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
trust me she is not going to tell them....i know her too well ...she will runway or sumthin....
2006-08-20 16:01:44 · update #1
They'll find out soon enough. It's not your job to tell her parents - she may be thinking of the best way to break the news to them. Just be there for her - that's really all you can do at this point.
2006-08-20 15:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her parent, that is her job. Right now she needs you too much. Try to talk her into it, explaining that they will find out one way or the other. I know that this is the chicken way but suggest either calling them or leaving a letter if she can't bear to do it face to face. This will give them time to react. If she still refuses at least find your local health department so she can start getting prenatal care. They also will be able to advise her on what to do about her parents. Tell her Congratulations for me. I remember when I was pregnant for the first time. It was not on purpose and everyone was so disappointed and I had one nurse tell me Congrats and it was such a relief to hear one person who treated my pregnancy as a blessing, not a curse. Baby's are hard but with a lot of love and determination they can also be so rewarding. Tell her that this could be the best mistake of her life. That is how I think of my son.
2006-08-21 00:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tara P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello. well, i was 15 (now 23) when i got pregnant. I was so scared and didn know what to do. Actually I went 5 months w/o a period and just kept saying to myself , that i am not pregnant. finally... i took a test. it was positive of course. so.. it was about midnight, i went into my mothers bedroom and woke her up and told her. she said to me, " oh jessie... ok well, tomorrow we'll have to make you a doctors appt." and i begged her not to tell my father till another time. well, so one day i came home from a night out with a friend, and i walked in the house, everyone was at the table (my parents and my 2 brothers) my dad looked at meand asked "jessie, do you have something to tell me?"i said "no, not at all" he sez " now jessie, i know you do what is it?" i just looked over at my mom and knew she said something. so, i said, okay i am pregnant. And he picked me up, sat me on his leg and asked why i was so scared to tell him. he sez there is nothing he cam say b/c its already said and done with and there is nothing he can do about it. i was 5 months. my parents were so great about it. but i took the responsibilities. i got a full time job after she was born and stayed in school, and then went to college. If i can do all that.... your friend can, i know she can.She cannot run away or not tell. its already done, there is nothing they can do but have some words. she can get help. there is welfare, food stamps, money too. also WIC Program. They get you the formula. Its great. Have her do those things and talk to her parents. If she runs away, shell end up getting hurt or lose that baby, or something bad. Talk to her as a friend. I had friends there for me, and it felt wonderful. Do that... for her. I wish her the best of luck.
2006-08-21 00:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by jessnclh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldn't . I know you think that telling your friends parents for her may seem like a good idea but its not. put yourself in her shoes if you were pregnant would you want your friend to tell your parents. Maybe she feel that its not the right time to tell her parents, its not your place to inform them of something of this nature. Afterall she knows her parents better than you do love
Ciao Bella
2006-08-20 23:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Coast Guard CCM lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is pregnant, advise her to tell them. She will need prenatal care for herself and the baby. It's very important.
If she cannot trust the response her parents might have - tell her to go to the school counselor for advice.
2006-08-20 22:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No... they will be able to figure it out soon enough. Either let your friend tell them or let them find out on their own... it isn't any of your business to tell them... even if you think it is the right thing to do. Just be there for your friend... she needs your friendship a lot right now.
2006-08-20 22:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by WenckeBrat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking us?
It's none of your business, anyway. Yeah sure your friend told you so she kind of made it your business, but she should be the one asking us.
What's in it for you? There's nothing you can do, and you shouldn't get involved.
If you really care about her, then support her. Take her to planned parenthood and tell her to have an abortion.
2006-08-21 00:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just be A friend and talk her into telling her parents or tell her your going to tell her parents so it will not be A surprise when her parents confront her. She needs to tell her parents soon for medical care.
2006-08-20 22:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by honeygirland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, she could so her mom can take her to doctor so she can get a abortion or just gone head have it and see is it healthy u know stuff like that... and let her handle that and not u.. stay out of it i know its ya friend but u can not tell her parents.. dont even tell yours becuz they'll tell her mom espically if shes hideing it from them.. and selfish parents will do selfish things like that! .. so u and ya friend betta watch out!
2006-08-20 23:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should tell her parents. They're going to find out anyway, and chances are that they would be more upset that their child was too afraid to tell them.
2006-08-20 22:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by MrMarblesTI 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋