To begin with, much of this unwanted advice comes from my step-mom. I am sure she means well, but she really makes me angry sometimes and I find myself staying away from her for longer and longer periods of time now a days. We used to have a good relationship, then she married my dad earlier this year and it all seems to have gone downhill. For example, today, she tells me I NEED to have my tubes tied (which made me very angry). I just turned 28, am pregnant with my 2nd child, responsible, married, own a home, both kids have the same dad, and we have talked about having one more kid someday. She was insisting that I do it, telling me I am too old to be having more kids (huh?), birth control is bad, and I have no business having kids 12 years apart (my first son is 12). I totally argued with her, telling her it was none of her business and I would do no such thing. She just kept going on and on, so I got up and left. How do I deal with crap like this - I am really mad!!
2006-11-06
12:09:05
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Michaela 4120
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