This is a serious questions, please answer honestly. If I were to tell you I was on two different gov't assistant programs, unable to work, pregnant and the father of the baby was not in a position to support the child and I needed further got't support to raise the child, how would you answer: 1: give me information for gov't help 2= congratulation on being pregnant 3-ask me if I ever heard of birth control 4-tell the father to get two jobs, its his responsibility not the gov't 5-tell me if I can't afford the baby don't have one 6-tell me if I can't afford the baby to put it up for adoption Keep in mind I am disable, unable to work, the father for whatever reason doesn't, and the gov't assistance comes from the taxes of those who work. Thank you.
2006-11-06 05:57:38 · 14 answers · asked by desert_kats 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I would tell you to do everything you could to make the father of your baby pay child support and stop making excuses for him. Go to the Department of Child Support Services and enlist your dead beat babies daddy. You are right it is not the governments responsibility it is yours and the fathers. I also think you should stop making babies that you cannot afford to raise.
2006-11-06 06:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Binky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
6
2006-11-06 14:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 and 4
2006-11-06 14:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
While I appreciate your situation, at some point you have to ask yourself if it's a good idea for you to bring a baby into the world that you can't support and the father won't support.
You are asking the question so obviously you have doubts. If you feel like you can't provide for the baby you should put it up for adoption so a family in a better position can raise it and love it.
2006-11-06 14:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by ksmpmjoll 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest 1 and 4...i becuase you are not able to work you should be on disability burt that doesn't give the father any excuses why he can't go out and get a job to help support his child....
2006-11-06 14:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 and 2. I also wish you the best of luck, I dont anyone should telll you any different. Being disable is a completly understandable reason to be on government assistant programs. You are one of those people who need these progrmas were as thses other people who are completly able to work and chose to be lazy and not, however back to you; if you babies dad isnt working for whatever the reason then you take everything the government is willing to give you for your baby. Best Wishes!
2006-11-06 14:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by miss_villegas_2005 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I suppose it's weather or not you want the baby that matters. To be honest, I don't care if people get government help or not as long as they are loving and taking care of their baby. It's not any one else business how you take care of your baby, as long as you are! So if you are happy, then I am happy for you. As for the father, who gives a s**t! Plenty of women are single moms, why can't you be?
2006-11-06 14:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
5-tell me if I can't afford the baby don't have one
I would tell you a couple other ones too, but that would be the first.
2006-11-06 14:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I`d wish you every luck in the world. I believe governments and society should support people raising children if required. Its a hard job being a parent. You would not deserve condemnation.
2006-11-06 14:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i agree with the first...1 and 2....congrats on the baby...making new life is always something to be happy about...and that's what the government is there for .... to help people who need it...good luck! :-)
2006-11-06 14:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋