Have you ever wanted to have a baby but you are not married or your not even in a relationship?
I've wanted to have a child since I was 16 (I'm now 22) and everytime I see a young child or baby I get jealous or everytime I see a child or a baby without a mom because she left I will get so mad at the person who left, thinking how could they do that.
Am I wierd or do some of you go through this to.
2006-11-06 08:58:53 · 10 answers · asked by Vixen 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I had my first son when I was not married. I lost him 6years ago..the following year I had to have surgery..I can no longer have kids. I so badly want more kids...I see people with babies or pregnant, I get mad..When I see on TV of people abusing their kids or leaving them in a garbage can..it infuriates me..When people talk about abortion, it irritates me...Some people treat babies like they are toy dolls...
It's normal for you to feel that way. Women have this innate desire to parent..we were built that way. There is nothing wrong with that.. I would love to have one today or even adopt but I don't have the money for adoption. One day you will find someone who you love and you can have that child you so desire and I know you will be a great mom
2006-11-06 09:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by chilover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy did I ever! I was so baby hungry I couldn't stand it! It is normal I think...I hope! I am now married and am expecting my first! (I am only 11 weeks along) But am so excited. Something that helped me was doing a lot of care work, like candy striping and the hospital, sometimes you get to work in the NICU and to things to help the nurses with the babies. It doesn't ever go away, not until you have baby I think, but you can try and do things to help out other mothers and bond with their kids until you find your husband and can start your own family. When I was 22, I thought I would never be married and have a family, but you will! Good Luck and make sure you hold lots of babies, it really does help!
2006-11-06 09:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by jamiasl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while i replaced into fourteen I knew that i had to have toddlers yet no longer ideal away. So I frolicked as a babysitter. I have been given the learning and spent years observing different family individuals's toddlers advance up. you could evaluate starting to be to be a foster discern once you get older, or volunteer interior the maternity ward on the wellbeing facility for infant journey and that would help you to have an more desirable thought in case you % to grow to be a mom or no longer. Being a mom is an entire life dedication, unlike possessing a puppy (canines and cats are a pair of 20 twelve months dedication).
2016-10-21 09:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. I had 3 miscarriage before having my son and it seemed like after every miscarriage there was a story on the news about someone dumping a newborn somewhere, like one in the Seattle area was found in some bushes, but luckily she was found in time. I got so angry when I heard these stories. There are so many people out there that can't have kids of their own and these babies could have gone to a loving family.
2006-11-06 09:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 23years old and I'm married some how i now how you feel' cause this past 3years I'll be trying to get pregnant. But i ques is not time and just like you i get jealous because my sister and my brothers they have they kids even all my friends im the only one that really gets me real up sad. Some how we need to have some patients because that day will come sooner or later and that day we going to be the happiest mother.
2006-11-06 09:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by olmation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea I have wanted to have a baby, I still do. Im 14 though.. I have a friend who is 15 and is married and has a one on the way, or twins not sure. I go through it too..
2006-11-06 09:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by †Emily† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. I HAVE WANTED A BABY SINCE I WAS 12 YEARS OLD. WAY TO YOUNG!! BUT I WAITED UNTIL I FOUND THE MAN OF MY DREAMS AND HAD A BABY AT 23.
IT IS A VERY HARD THING TO DO ON YOUR OWN AND I THINK IT IS BETTER TO WAIT UNTIL YOU FIND THAT SOMEONE TO HAVE A BABY WITH. THEY ARE LOTS OF WORK AND ITS NICE WHEN DADDY CAN HELP TAKE PART. BUT IT IS NOT WRONG TO HAVE A CHILD ON YOUR OWN AS LONG AS YOU CAN CARE FOR IT LIKE YOU SHOULD.
2006-11-06 09:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by LOVE MY LIFE 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dont think your weird. I go through the same thing me an my husband are talking about having a baby im so exicted. i think it happens to every girl.
2006-11-06 09:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by blond_n_punk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not weird for wanting kids, its your motherly side
2006-11-06 09:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are weird if you want a child dat mad get into a good relationship and have one
2006-11-06 09:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by 561chick 1 · 1⤊ 7⤋