Other - Pregnancy & Parenting - October 2006

I want to have another baby in 3 years but My husband doesn't want to. I don't know what to do. I understand why he doesn't. We have a boy and a girl. But I had them so close together that I can't imagine not having another baby ever. My son is 18 months old and my daughter is 8 months old. IF they had been a couple of years apart, then I might be ok with not having any more babies.
But that's not the case.
I really want one more. What should I do?? How do I make him realize how much I want another baby and if I can't convice him that we should, how do I deal with the loss of never having another baby?????
What do you think????

2006-10-10 17:13:25 · 14 answers · asked by Tired-Mom 5

I am 37 weeks pregnant, the doc. said it was okay for labor now and I have a doc. appointment tomorrow but I am having problems until then. Last time I went to the doc. he said that I was soft, thinning out and my cervix was up close. But not dilated yet. I have been having contractions alot since then but nothing I needed to go the the hospital over. However today, I was having then about 30 min apart or so and I was walking through walmart and started feeling like I was a little wet. Went to the bathroom and there was some discharge. No blood or anything. But it keeps coming every now and then when I was. The walls to my vagina ache so bad and it feels like he is in between my legs, like a bowling ball or something. My contractions are now about 20 min apart but I feel like period symptoms and they are starting to feel a little harder, not much but getting harder def. Has anyone experienced this before going into labor? Is the bad soreness in my vagina normal? Thanks!

2006-10-10 16:49:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I read this on a website, days you are most likely not to get pregnant?

2006-10-10 16:26:28 · 18 answers · asked by Kit Kat 2

Two months ago a light brown or dark line appeared on my belly but I don't know why. has this ever happened to anyone else?I am not pregers thought I was but am not. my belly does not look like someone that is pregers.

2006-10-10 16:14:04 · 11 answers · asked by tmkhrstn 2

2006-10-10 16:04:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

a friend of mine was seeing this guy,He asked her if she wanted kids ?she said yes ,but only if it was someone she was married too.but,she stated that she wasn't on birthcontrol but do use condoms.she also said that if the condom broke or whatever the case maybe and became pregnant she would keep it b/c she felt as though it was meant to be.and also she don't believe in abortions.she said the guy said he was okay with that ,he respected the fact she was being honest with him.well it happened condom came off ,she became pregnant .she told the guy she was pregnant he wanted her to get an abortion, she didn't . she is six months ,he said he didn't want anything to do with her or the baby .a couple of days later the jerk showed up with a few bags of pampers, a couple cans of powered milk and she hasn't seen or heard from him since.I told her that it's gonna hurt like hell b/c he left to raise a baby by herself ,but, let him go eventually he'll be back . was i wrong for telling her that?

2006-10-10 15:45:23 · 8 answers · asked by phillygirl 2

Anyone anywhere?

2006-10-10 15:27:35 · 10 answers · asked by Spider 1

What does love mean to you? And does love have to be based on a relationship?

2006-10-10 13:57:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex, who is the father of my two kids has supervised visits twice a week with the girls. I allow him one of these visits at my home. While here today all he did was put in a movie and lay on the couch while the three yr old consistently asked him to play with her. I went into the room they were in to play with her while loser watched a movie. Our older daughter was wearing a tshirt which read,

"friends don;t let friends chain dogs."

We used to have a dog and while training her she was confined to the bathroom for a certain number of minutes before being let outside and then being allowed to be in the house. This took a few months. He made some comment about us abusing the dog and how it was ridiculous for her to wear that tshirt and then laughed at her. I told him that if he couldn;t be respectful in my house that he would have to leave. So he got up and left without even saying goodbye to anyone. Was I out of line, or justified in asking him to leave?

2006-10-10 13:46:02 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6

answered my question about young teens and pregency well I know that my nephew in grade 5 had sex ed in school, maybe it is different in Canada, At what age do they start sex ed any where else?

2006-10-10 13:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by whats up all 2

Was alittle harsh, Iknow accidents happen, but why cannnot parents talk to there children about birth control, and it least put there daughters on birth control? Nothing against young mothers, I think some young mothers take very good care of there children, but there are some that do not, and there are some that are older that kill there children for attention then what can we do ?

2006-10-10 13:16:10 · 7 answers · asked by whats up all 2

Everytime I Do Work Around The House My Heart Start Beating Really Fast And I Don't Know If I'm Pregnant Or Conceving.

2006-10-10 12:52:21 · 17 answers · asked by marriedcheesecake88 1

can anyone tell me how to reply again when someone answers my question ?

2006-10-10 12:20:17 · 5 answers · asked by Lolo 2

im so stressed out rite now wit everything. i mean i love my son and my unborn daughter but idk this is so much i'm just tryin too get through skewl i go to an ALC now and i just dont want ppl thinkin im a bad mother cuz of my age.....plz give me positive remarks i really cant take anymore negitive stuff.

2006-10-10 12:19:06 · 24 answers · asked by Amber E 1

My ex-sister in law is a foster parent.and on Thursday the little boy she has had for for a week in a half.is going with his grandpatents.and she is very upset.what should I do for her? thanks in advance

2006-10-10 11:58:40 · 8 answers · asked by Angel sent from heaven 5

im 36 weeks preg, and having like a sharp pain in my back i know im not going into labor soon but just curious! and also when i urinate its a bad smell and it hurts and having lots of pressure!!!!

2006-10-10 11:20:25 · 15 answers · asked by junkinmytrunk 1

We are trying to have a baby. We're having trouble with middle names. For girls we have Alanna- meaning noble, harmony, fair; Alena- meaning bright one. For a boy or girl Tandam...unable to find the meaning. And for a boy Tristan. We don't want anything common, such as Elizabeth, Ann, Marie, Joesph. One boy name we do have is Tristan Mane. Thanks for the help!!

2006-10-10 11:02:13 · 12 answers · asked by rockstar 2

I'm really having a problem with this. My baby is 8 weeks old, and I thought I would be feeling better by now. I've pretty much been put through the ringer, though. I had an emergency C-Section and he was born 6 weeks early, spent 2 weeks in the NICU. THEN, 4 weeks ago, my appendix ruptured and I spent 4 days in the hospital, and that's when it really kicked in.

I can't seem to stop crying (although I am better now that I'm on antidepressants). Anyone with experience with this? I'm tired of feeling so awful, both mentally and physically.

2006-10-10 10:58:33 · 10 answers · asked by edkolover 3

how do you feel about having two babies and to mothers who have two already how do you cope is it really hard

2006-10-10 10:45:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

that aren't typical names like brandon and stuff like that.
Really pretty names that a different that you don't really hear about.

2006-10-10 10:02:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long can sperm live outside of the male body? I think it's like 7 days if it is in the vagina?!?! But what about if it's like on a towel or something? Thanks, I know this is a weird question.

2006-10-10 09:42:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't had my period since 7 of September and its the 10 of
October its already two weeks ?? Should i take a tes now??? My sister in law says i have to wait at least 3 weeks ???? What can I do and am I pregnant???

2006-10-10 09:39:35 · 19 answers · asked by mexican4u77 2

Both me and my partner smoke pot about 3 times a week. We were trying to concieve for 5 months now, no luck. Of cource once i become pregnant we both would stop. Were soon about to quit, but would it make a difference on conceiving?

2006-10-10 09:38:32 · 27 answers · asked by Nosugarcoating 1

I had sex about 2 months ago the guy did not use a condom we had sex but his penis wasnt even all the way in im not sure if he even came but after we had got done he got up me and i got up about 5 minutes later and walked around then about 10-15 minutes later i went to the bathroom, about a week after we had sex i had my period and it was regular came on the right day and everything is there a chance i could be pregnant? A month later i started taking birth control pills and i started to feel nausea, a lot of tiredness, and bloating....could this be side effects from the pill or pregnancy signs. Even after i started the pill i still had a period but it wasnt regular from where i started taking the birth control. Since then i have taken 5 pregnancy, randomly including today, tests 3 of them were different and they all came back NEG...Could i be pregnant?

2006-10-10 09:33:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughters school is having a fall carnival. all the kids and adults can dress up. i figured, since this is my daughters last year at this school it would be neat if i ran a booth. sincce i'm running a booth i would like to fully participate and dress-up. any fun ideas-nothing scary or gory-for a school full of pre-k and kindergartners. something creative and not to expensive. any ideas? also something easy-i'm not very creative, and will be stressed for time.
BTW-- i don't know if this matters but my daughter is going as a mermaid fairy,

2006-10-10 09:27:25 · 8 answers · asked by Alexis and Abbigails' mommy 4

I had sex about 2 months ago the guy did not use a condom we had sex but his penis wasnt even all the way in im not sure if he even came but after we had got done he got up me and i got up about 5 minutes later and walked around then about 10-15 minutes later i went to the bathroom, about a week after we had sex i had my period and it was regular came on the right day and everything is there a chance i could be pregnant? A month later i started taking birth control pills and i started to feel nausea, a lot of tiredness, and bloating....could this be side effects from the pill or pregnancy signs. Even after i started the pill i still had a period but it wasnt regular from where i started taking the birth control.

2006-10-10 09:26:28 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I'm a 17 old senior high school student in Canada, and I was wondering what job positions there are in pregnancy and adoption services? What education and experience do I need to obtain one of these positions in the future?

I have assisted in the adoption of my brother, and well as assisted friends through their adoption. I would love to continue being able to help people through things like this, but on a more professional level.

Thanks

2006-10-10 08:46:34 · 1 answers · asked by xboxgirl 3

i just found out i was pregnant i am 9 weeks and i am kind of scared because i am only 17 and the house i live in now my whole family lives there and my sisters son. besides when i have this child i want me and its father to both be living together so that we can be a family the problem is me being so young it is really hard to find a good paying job. i work at togos right now but i was hoping some of you knew where i could look for financial housing assistance please help

2006-10-10 08:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by april b 1

I have 193 best answers and the #10 on the top 10 answeres only has 189 best answers. How come I'm not in the Top 10?

2006-10-10 08:21:08 · 7 answers · asked by BeeFree 5

I want to have a baby with my hubby so bad,, I have two daughters already but they are 11 and 13, and by my 1st hubby,,

I want to build our family with my new hubby we have been married for 6 yrs. He says he's too old,, he doesn't think he would be a good dad, ect ect,, I don't know what to do,, I cry everytime I think about not having a child with him,, when I think that I will have to settle for this,, why do I have to settle why can't he just change his mind???

2006-10-10 08:07:01 · 18 answers · asked by B V 5