Adolescent - February 2007

I really need advice. I dint want to expose my personal life but I feel I have to at this point.
I love my son. I have always tried to guide him and love him best I could.
Somethings wrong. He is failing out of school. His grades were never perfect but never this bad. He has been late more than 10 times for school this year. Now I am finding "dirty" words written on his notebooks.
I recieved a call from the principal yesterday. He said my son drew a very dirty picture on his desk! It was a picture of his teacher doing obscene things.
I took away his gameboy etc. I made him write an apology letter to the principal and teacher. I also made him write 10 pages of "Im sorry for drawing an innapropriate picture."
I have tried to ask him if there is something else wrong and he says no. Im so sad about this.

2007-02-13 01:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by rybo510 4

But im not sure..
How else can i find out without taking a test or going to the doctors?

2007-02-12 23:32:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 3 month away from graduating what is a healthy way to lose weight. i have a BIG belly.

2007-02-12 16:28:25 · 20 answers · asked by (TMM) 2

this girl in my class thinks im so cute because i am 4'10 and most every1 else in 7th grade is 5'2.....everything i do she says "OH THATS SO CUTE!!!" its ANNOYING!!!i also get called "elf" and some1 has even said to me "not every1 taller than you is tall..." How can i avoid this???How can i deal with it all?

2007-02-12 16:08:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's only 15. We've moved her into a new school, talked to his parents and made sure she is on birth control. She continues to try to see him against our wishes. (we have good reason to not allow him near her. ) He threatens her, says she "needs to have his baby" and has broken into our home and stolen from us. His mom actually smoked pot with them - which she admits. Law enforcement seems unable to help. We're doing counseling and have an active family life, but she seems unable and unwilling to break things off with him. She thinks they are going to marry someday and getting pregnant would force that issue. So scared for her!

2007-02-12 16:06:44 · 6 answers · asked by kellymi 1

what should i get my boyfriend 4 ♥day[valentines day]its also are month aversity !!!!!!!!!!!this is so hard Happy ♥day

2007-02-12 15:48:34 · 12 answers · asked by soccer kisses!!!!!!!! 3

I am stumped.... she already has: cell phone, ipod. The family has a dog, cant have any more pets. She lives in another state, so cant take her shopping or anywhere else, or even know her taste in clothes right now. Have already done the gift voucher thing for Xmas, so want something different, that can be easily posted. Oh and I want to surprise her, so dont want to ask her. Come on, 12 year olds, help me with suggestions!

2007-02-12 15:36:59 · 16 answers · asked by m4yb 2

lets see what most people would say on this subject.
and the 14 yr old is in the relationship by choice.
i dont know anyone in this situation.
i know this is illegal. im 16.

2007-02-12 15:04:27 · 38 answers · asked by cbbs 1

2007-02-12 14:43:26 · 5 answers · asked by the_used_fan_0717 1

of crap. I found out by checking her cell phone log and finding that the number who is constantly text messaging her isn't her girlfriend as she told me it was. Instead, it has been her 28 year old male teacher. He has been telling her that he has liked her for a long time, that he has dreams about them being married with 2 kids, that he'll do anything it takes to have a future with her.....I could go on and on. It just makes me sick to think about it. He is married with 3 kids. I called the superintendent and I'm going to meet with him in the morning. Then I called the Sheriff's office and an officer is meeting me tomorrow after I leave the school.

My question is: If I approach the teacher tomorrow and tell him to pack his stuff and resign immediately or I'll press charges, do you think he'll do it? I mean as a teacher, he should be pretty scared and I'm banking on that because I don't evidence besides the log and my daughter's word, but he doesn't know that. Help!

2007-02-12 14:28:35 · 41 answers · asked by Someday Soon 2

I am doing a sociology paper on Teen Pregnancy and want to know what is the likelihood for a male teen to stick around with their girlfriend if she becomes pregnant?

2007-02-12 14:26:15 · 19 answers · asked by cutie981979 1

What is the best way to discipline a strong willed child?

2007-02-12 14:24:47 · 36 answers · asked by mytm4u 2

Some of these questions really deserve them, I mean come on now.....

2007-02-12 14:23:59 · 11 answers · asked by K 3

sould i make it complex or keep it simple?

2007-02-12 14:16:22 · 16 answers · asked by froggy moto 1

my teen 13yrs. old and i'm having another child and she don't like it she wants to be byherself. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-12 14:12:14 · 17 answers · asked by Angelica K 1

like alot of teens are doing it now and its natural sooo why cant i just go buy a condom have sex and get pregnant and my mom be totally fine with it?im in love ready too have sex and loose my vergenity....ps:13 year old beauty luved alwayz!

2007-02-12 14:07:25 · 42 answers · asked by cut13p13! 1

Seriously....most of these questions have absolutely nada to do with the topic it's under. Including mine, but still.....

2007-02-12 13:34:59 · 9 answers · asked by K 3

I Mentor a boy (heas a young teen) and his Mom is dating a new boyfriend. She had only known him for about 2 weeks and had him "sleepover" (several times) at their house while my mentee and his little sister was home. This isn't the first guys to walk through the door. I obiously think she is a little easy (cleaned that up for you) . I also don't think this is a good thing for the kids (especially for her daughter), but is there anything I can do? (probably not). I'm pretty sure it bothers the kids because my mentee seems more agitated when a new boyfriend arrives on the scene. Any suggestions or comments?

2007-02-12 13:34:38 · 11 answers · asked by benjamin p 1

i have a 14 year old daughter who is haveing sex left and right and i talked to her about it but she says quote ''MOM! its none of your buissnes i love to ******* have sex and i dont ******* care!'' un quote. i hurts my heart to hear about this. shes been haveing sex at her boyfriend house and at partys the movie theater and when shes at the mall shopping with me and her boyfriend hes grabbing her but and touching her vagina and there constantly makeing out and i told him to stop and he says no and if you try to break us up im going to kidnap your doughter and **** her forever im so scared i dont know what to do help me please!

2007-02-12 13:31:34 · 9 answers · asked by chloe m 1

My biology teacher made us change lab partners a few weeks ago and anyway he stuck me with his fat geekboy who has a severe flatulence problem. It's really gross and I am getting nauseous in class as a result. Today I needed to go to the bathroom to heave but my teacher would not let me. So I went anyway. When I came back, he wrote me up and sent me to the office. I told him it was completely unfair and my health comes first, and I refused to go to the office. He called the vice principal and she came down and yelled at me and gave me detention for two days and then left a phone message for my dad, which I erased because I am on my last chance before dad sends me to boarding school. I think I have the right to not be nauseous in class and these people are violating my right to an education. Why is my life so unfair?

2007-02-12 13:13:01 · 15 answers · asked by Lori 5

I mastrubate and i want to know would parents tell you they know you mastrubate. I just want to know because i think my dad know and i want to know if he will tell me that he know i know.

2007-02-12 13:04:58 · 4 answers · asked by Timecat 1

2007-02-12 13:00:05 · 19 answers · asked by Glamorous 1

apartment? What kind of job could one get to achieve this goal.

2007-02-12 12:01:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a women who does catering out of her home catering my wedding. Im paying her $680 for my cake and food (that includes tax). Since we are having the wedding and reception at the same place, she will be setting up before the wedding. Should I give her a tip? If so, do I tip her tomoro when I pay her or after she sets up the food? and how much?

2007-02-12 11:22:45 · 2 answers · asked by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6

Why or why not?
Me and all my single gf's are all just gonna hang out and have fun together. [not in that way either]

2007-02-12 11:08:48 · 17 answers · asked by K 3

This will be my first time. Soooo scared and nervous.

Will the injection hurt ? What will happen ?

Can Mum stay with me ? What does "going to sleep" feel like ?

2007-02-12 11:07:13 · 7 answers · asked by lauren w 1

Well my sweet 16 is coming up in August....yes i know you are all thinking why so early about thinking about this....but yeah i need ideas on what to do...i know for a fact that i want a party.....we are low on money and i want my sweet 16 to be good....nothing horrible....i live in Az....so yeah it will be hot out...
please give me ideas
i want to start planning ahead that way it wont be a last minute thing...you know?
Thanks for all of your answers!

2007-02-12 10:37:32 · 6 answers · asked by *Hello* 3

would she really want to talk to me about them? what would she say? would she ask alot of questions? I f your a mom can you tell me if you would !

2007-02-12 10:12:25 · 24 answers · asked by Bobby 1

Everyone I liked is now taken (obviously), and I got no hope left.

I just got in a fight on the bus, too (jackasses threw a highlighter at my head).

Now what should I do? Those girls are just into jackassy rap and stuff that sucks.

2007-02-12 09:52:18 · 7 answers · asked by ZZ 4

i swear i was like 2 sec away from beating a girl up at skool today. this girl has been bothering me since like 5th grade we are now in 8th. well today in history she said something really stupid so i said if u fuking say that again im gonna beat u up. she said there is no way i can beat her up. everyone that knos me knos i can beat her up and that im not afraid to either. i swear if this girl touches me again or says something that is really stupid to me then i will beat her up. how can i get this girl to leave me the *** alone before she gets hurt. cause i was so close to hitting her today but i didn't.

2007-02-12 09:42:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous