why is sex for older people only?

Question

like alot of teens are doing it now and its natural sooo why cant i just go buy a condom have sex and get pregnant and my mom be totally fine with it?im in love ready too have sex and loose my vergenity....ps:13 year old beauty luved alwayz!

Answer 1

you don't know anything about your body or your partners body.
See the reason we are saying you are not old enough yet is because we have been there. We know what we are talking about cause we have done it.
There is an old saying...
A FOOL WILL LEARN FROM HIS/HER MISTAKES...
BUT A GENIUS WILL LEARN FROM THE FOOLS MISTAKES.
DOOOOOOON'T BE A FOOL!

I am 35 now, and just from experience... I can tell you that I didn't know sheat about sex, or the opposite sex till I was 23.
and I have yet to hear from a single woman in all my years that said... "I'm glad I did it when I did it. I am soo glad I didn't wait."
EVERY ONE OF THEM SAID THE SAME THING... "I WISH I HAD WAITED!"
Try it yourself... go ask several women. see what they say... If you can find a single woman that will tell you that she is glad she lost her virginity young.. Then I will admit defeat.
GOOD LUCK SWEETIE






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Answer 2

Sex is reserved for older, more mature people for specifically the viewpoint you just expressed. Young people are not emotionally mature enough for sex or to handle the relational implications of sex. Also, sex has responsibilities that come along with it. Raising a baby is hard work and it's expensive and trying. It's not something a 13-year-old is prepared for. Sex is a beautiful and natural thing and you're right about that but it also has its own importance. Sex is a very important act and isn't something that should just be done for any reason. I'm not saying that pre-marital sex condemns you to hell but sex does require some commitment between two people and a history of respect and love.

Answer 3

Because of the fact that teens don't have the respect for sex like older people and some older people don't have the respect for sex. Also if you get pregnant your not going to be the one taking care of the kid your mom is. I'm pretty sure your mom does not want to go through that trouble. When you do get pregnant the boy half of the time don't even help and claim that the child is not theirs and don't think he won't because 1 out 10 there is a 9% chance he will. Also teen boys don't have sex because their in love its just because their in heat.

Answer 4

Sweetheart- i felt just like you once! I was ready to "get it over with" and at age 14- i did! I've never regretted anthing so much in my life! I had my FIRST child @ 16! I was a smart girl who thought i knew everything! i KNEW i was in love and I KNEW i could handle anything that sex brought with it! I was WRONG! People tell you to wait because we'd hate to see someone make the same mistakes that we made- and intern, feel the same pain! I did it for all the wrong reasons- and i was NOT prepaired to be a mother- no matter how much i thought i was! Think back to when you were 8 years old and you thought you had it all figured out- and think now about how you probably realized how silly it all seems to you now! I PROMISE that in 3-5-7-10 years- you'll look back on now and see things COMPLETELY different! And take it from somebody who went ahead at your age- it's NOT worth it! It's NOT like in the movies! Sex is groos, and it hurts, and it's embarasing as hell! PROMISE!

Answer 5

Many years ago, 13 year olds were married and lived with their husbands and took care of their own houses. Today however, teen agers are supposed to discipline their sexual urges, get at least a high school education and have children after they are financially stable.

Which world do you wish you lived in? Remember there is no pleasure with out a pain or a consequence. You can't have all the adult pleasure without the adult responsibility. While you might be able to deal with the pleasure, are you able to take care of a house and children? Do you have the means to buy groceries and clothes for not only yourself but for your children also? Can you keep a house in working order? If not, you aren't ready for the pleasures of being an adult.

I think 13 year olds should move out of their parent's houses, be allowed to have jobs and have serious responsibilities but the rest of the world isn't with me on that. Sounds like you and I are standing out in the rain all alone on that one.

Answer 6

Because children are mot mature enough to handle the emotional ties that come with being intimate.

And since when does it make it right to do something just because everyone else it..if everyone else stood on train tracks trying to dodge it would you?

Being a mom is a hard job it's not fun and games, if you get tired of being a mom you can't give the baby back it's a 24/7/365 job with no days off, no vacation, no sick days..if you want to play mommy get a baby sitting job.

Answer 7

seriously learn how to spell...and if u actually can but just don't want to , uumm just know that it really is not cute


well anywho ya i could say what everyone else says as in that you are not mentally mature enough and all that because it is true,
but where i'll come from is a high school perspective.
if u have sex at thirteen, know that everyone will know in less then a week, and in less then a few months you will be a complete whore according to all the other girls,
So unless u want a horrible school experience thru 12th grade, just don't do it

Answer 8

See darling, you can't have sex until your body has reached the fully maduration, both sexual and physical, which happens around you're 18 years old. Before that, you're body simply is not ready for it.

Yes, you feel the same, it is still enjoyable, yet, it's not healthy for you, specially if you are a girl. Are you ready to accept whatever might happen if you get pregnant at 14? Accidental pregnancy happen to adults, so, it would happen even more often to teenagers.

Answer 9

Aside from the education you require to live your life and raise your children, the teenage mind (and no offence - I was there too) is not nearly prepared for the responsibility of a sexual relationship.
Think about it - how easy is it for you to take care of yourself? Can you pay rent? buy your groceries? cook your meals? buy all your clothes? Pay for heat, hydro, phone, insurance?
What about your medical bills?

If you can't even take care of yourself right now, you certainly shouldn't even be thinking about the welfare of an innocent child?

Right now it's your job to get an education. It's hard enough to be a teen in this day and age let alone add the stress and strain of "natural sex" and babies. But then - it's really about selfishness isn't it?

Answer 10

because by the way you talk,..... you are not old enough to appreciate what sex is all about..

yea go ahead...get pregnant.. see what your life is like...
try having a 24 hr a day babysitting job for the next 20 years for no pay..no life...barely making ends meet... and no guy wants to take on another guys kid

this could mean no boyfriends,,, no prom,,,no parties, do dates with nice guys from college.. no spring break.. no holidays with friends, or ski trips etc

but for you Ms Smarty Pants...it means always working for minimun wage..staying home...cause all your friends that didn't think so IRRESPONSIBLY... are out having fun...meeting friends , going places and doing things ...
THEY WILL LEAVE YOU BEHIND...NO ONE WANTS A GIRL WITH A KID HANGING AROUND THEM CAUSE YOU WILL BE HOLDING THEM BACK FROM HAVING FUN

You are fooling yourself if you think your mom will be cool with it... YOU ARE CRAZY..... she has to raise you..why would you want to burden her with a baby and another mouth to feed?

the statistics show that the most dangerous place for a child is in the home of a step parent... cause they don't love your kid like you do...they don't protect them like you do... and the abuse rate is the highest
chances are that if you have a daughter that she will be molested and that also if you have a child young when you are not ready... that she will live what she learns and do as you did and you will be repeating the cycle of being a single parent...on welfare probably....

before you give yourself to some guy...that you suspposably LOVE..

ask yourself this question

Do you want to end up with NOTHING for the rest of your life?

cause if you have a baby AT 13 OR 14
you will not get to do the things that you want to do
your life will probably stop the minute that baby hits the earth
you will probably be a drop out
our friends will leave you behind..cause you are no fun anymore and you always have a kid to look after..
minimum wage jobs forever
no education
no house
you kid won't be able to do as the other kids do because you won't be able to afford hockey , or dance or music lessons..etc

and another thing

if you DO NOT PROTECT YOURSELFWHILE HAVING SEX
you are endangering your life

AND SEX IS NOT WORTH DYING FOR

GROW UP...COME BACK AND TALK TO ME WHEN YOU ARE 20. and graduated from College
..AND THEN MAYBE YOU'LL BE READY...WHEN YOU CAN LOOK AFTER YOURSELF WITH OUT THE HELP OF YOUR MOM