my teen 13yrs. old and i'm having another child and she don't like it she wants to be byherself. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-12 14:12:14 · 17 answers · asked by Angelica K 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell her not too be so selfish
2007-02-12 14:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jose P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tak with her and see why she doesn't want a brother or sister. After figuring out why you may be able to help her with it. Try explaining that even though there will be another kid that your attention will not all be on the new baby there will be time for her too. If it helps spend some quality time together before the baby and have her help pick stuff out for the baby include her in it. Hope it helps.
2007-02-12 22:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by shylittlekitten72121 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until she holds the child and watch the love she has i her eyes for the baby. Share the first moments of the child's life and all will be good.
2007-02-12 22:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by ezrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really a mother?
How come I have better gramatical skill than you?
That was rude sorry.
Talk to her about it. Just tell her how every life is special and precious and how you want to keep the baby and not to get rid of it. Abortion is wrong. Especially if you get rid of it just because your 13 year old daughter has more of a say in your life than you do.....
2007-02-12 22:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry that will all change after the baby is born. Just don't sympathize with the teen
2007-02-12 22:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by grainy33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that even though you're having another baby doesn't mean you will love the baby more than you loved her. remind her that she's even luckier than the baby because you have loved her longer. and that will never change. after you give birth make sure that you'll keep your promise that you'll love her and the baby equally. if you buy something for the baby, make sure that you also have something for her, something like that.
2007-02-13 01:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by aenaea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's really not up her to her now, is it? it's your decision to have another child, you will be the one supporting it, raising it, feeding it, sheltering it, etc. if your older child doesn't like the idea of you having another child, tell her she can find alternate means of shelter. it sounds cruel, but it will get her to stop whining.
2007-02-13 00:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by stephieSD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a professional help, otherwise you end up with a lot of problems once your baby is born.
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2007-02-12 22:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As she grows older she'll develop more independance
Jeez, most parents would love a kid like that though o.O
2007-02-12 22:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ethernaut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal, i think. everyone does not like to be left out! perhaps your daughter is afraid that you might neglect her after the baby is born.
Afterall, we teenagers at this age need attention too!
2007-02-16 04:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by HumanBeingOnEarth! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats not her desition is it.
i was 13 when my mum had other and was unhappy at first but fine after. your daughter sounds plain spoilt sorry
2007-02-13 01:17:54 · answer #11 · answered by taytaymm28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋