would she really want to talk to me about them? what would she say? would she ask alot of questions? I f your a mom can you tell me if you would !
2007-02-12 10:12:25 · 24 answers · asked by Bobby 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
O sorry i am 15
2007-02-12 10:19:16 · update #1
If you were my son, I would talk to you about objectifying women and how to respect them even if they don't respect themselves.
2007-02-12 10:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I answered your other question about this already, but wanted to add this:
None of us KNOWS your mom, so there's really no way of us knowing how she'll react or what she'll do or say, etc. Some moms would freak, some would want to have "the talk", some would just understand and respect your privacy, etc.
*I* would personally have already talked to my kids about sexuality and safe sex by the time they were 15, so that wouldn't even be an issue. I don't think there's anything at ALL wrong with Playboys and I would probably just pass right by the mags without even giving it a second thought. I'm a really lenient mom though, and a very open person.
You know your mom better than us, you should have SOME kind of idea how she'd react to a Playboy magazine in your room. If you think she'll freak, then just hide them in a better spot...if you think she'll want to have "the talk" with you, just be mature about it and deal with it.
2007-02-12 18:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Megan V 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow i am not making this up but I just got caught with porn yesterday. My mom was switching my TV with my sisters and found a porno in my VCR and i had 3 tapes underneath the bed along with a baby oil bottle. She took my tapes and my baby oil. I just stayed in my room for like 2 hours then she finally came in and had an akward conversation about it with me. I'd say if she finds them yea it'll be kinda weird for a while maybe a day or two at the most but then things will go back to normal soon enough. But DO NOT hide them under your bed or your mattress. Its such an obvious place. You know get creative with it.
2007-02-12 20:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ace of Blackness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she'll ask too many questions. My mom found my porn stash when I was like 16 or 17 and she didn't say anything about it...she just mentioned that she found it. If she finds it she'll probably be just as embarassed as you!
And yes...playboy sucks. Movies are much better (although a little risky if you don't have a tv and dvd player in your room). Just be sure to keep your room clean so she won't have any reason to be in your room!
2007-02-12 18:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by tangyterp83 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son is 13, I would rather him look at a Playboy than the freaks on the Internet.
2007-02-12 19:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by trixie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she'd probably be just as freaked out as you, for starters. My mom found some... inappropriate things in my room, but she was cool with it.
I mean, everyone at one point's looked at it, and playboy is MILD compared to the **** on the internet. She might tell you not to get more, and confiscate them.
Worst case, go buy a few more and choose a better spot :)
2007-02-12 18:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by mo_c_mo33 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hmmm.....your 15, well she knows you beat off, so i guess its best she knows you whack it to pics of women rather then men!!!!!
And if she asks questions just answer them, its not too bad, just a little embarassing at first
oh and try for a different hiding spot, or dont even hide them, just leave them on your dresser, or in a magazine rack in the bathroom....moms just expect to find things like that, they are kind of releived to find them, unless the pages are stuck together :)
Just wait till she finds condoms when your older, and hickeys on your neck...thats when the lectures start coming...good luck with your jerk off material!!
2007-02-12 18:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by Wings Fan! 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would hope that all she would do is make sure you understood that real women aren't perfect like the airbrushed pictures in the magazines and that you had a clean pillow case to masturbate into. But I wouldn't count on it.
2007-02-12 18:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think i would take them and toss them it would be too embarassing for both of us, but i don't know i don't have to think about that for a few more years my kids are 4, and 6. good luck
2007-02-12 21:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hide them under your bed (that's the first place they look), hide them either under a rug, or tape them on a wall (behind a poster).
2007-02-12 18:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny m 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋