last week when I had to go to the doctor w/ my mom, b/c blood tests showed something wrong with my liver (im fine now) So the doctor is asking me questions about my lifestyle to try & pin-point what was causing my liver issue, so finally he asks me if im sexually active,& I froze! My mom didnt know I was sexually active& I dont think she agrees w/ premarital sex ingeneral. So shes looking@ me like "please answer no", so i finally turn to her& say "yes mom, i AM sexually active" (i have a boyfriend) & returned to the Dr.s questions.
When we got home, my mom got all mad, telling me im too young to have sex (im 19), &that I could get pregnant (im on birthcontrol). Then she asked me WHY I have sex, i didnt have an answer. I care about my boyfriend, he cares about me& it feels good, but I want to say exacly that. I dont think my lack of a long meaningful answer reflects that I shouldnt have sex. I know shes gonna ask me again, how can I convey that she has no control over this!?
2006-11-21
15:18:41
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