my friends and i are fighting?

Question

lets say there names are rae and calli. we got into a fight and now it is turned into a total tizzy. i apligized and said sorry,but they didnt accept it. i dont know what i did,they both started ignoring me. i always say sorry to everybody,even though i dont do anything. rae is super popular and i think callie is just hanging out with her to be popular. they keep ganging up on me or just plain ignoring me. im a too much of a softie and what should i do about my friends?

thank u,cil t, i really like ur answer. i was going to email u,but i cant because u dont let people email u.thank u and i prayed right after i got ur answer.

Answer 1

just ignores them,there is so much hatred in this world,just do your thing and ask God to sent peace to them,ask every night before you go to bed,and thing will be can to change or write down on paper and put it under your pillow.God loves you i do.

Answer 2

I guess that there are several approaches:
One is to branch off and make other friends (chances are if you are friends with a popular girl, you are not completely unable to make friends) Either be friends with them truly, or just to make your other friends jealous (aka talk all the time about all the fun things you do with *blank*). The making new friends option is most likely the safest, because they might just be annoyed with you for some random reason, or its been coming for a long time, or it could just be a phase. If they are annoyed or don't like you, they won't come back for your friendship, but chances are it will pass and they will try and be friends again.
Another option is to use calli's hanging out with her to be popular against both/either of them. for example bring it up to calli or rae. But chances are that this will just agitate your friendship further.
The best thing I think is to just ignore them. However, I used to apologize about every single thing so many times, that everyone got extremely pissed off at me, because I overused it. Maybe try and stop apologizing so much, or at least differentiate them, like say I'm really and truly sorry, or explain in an IM or email.
If you want to stay friends with them, maybe do something that will always be fun, like see a movie or go to the mall or something. But at this age everyone is stupid, and there is not much you can do about it besides move on and let it pass.
Best of Luck
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Answer 3

I have that same problem all the time.
Just ignore them and go find some other people to hang out with. I don't have many friends so I know how you feel.

Good Luck

Answer 4

this happens alot when there are 3 friends. you need to even it out and make it 4 friends.
just ignore them for now and find someone else to hang out with.
try and make as if it isnt bothering you at all and theyll come back around
good luck

Answer 5

i can't really answer your question if it's about your friends. because they obviously don't seem like friends. you should just get over them. they are probably getting a great laugh watching you suffer. and if you think that's friendship. then you seriously need to relook things...i don't htink that made sense. but if it did. good luck.

Answer 6

If they are going to treat you like this they are not true friends to you. Ignore them. Don't try anymore and they may wonder why you are not trying to get them to pay attention to you.

Answer 7

Give'em the old Irish right upercut

Answer 8

just ignore them . there only doing this to make you feel bad .

Answer 9

Find some new friends.

Answer 10

Phuck em move on