I am in 6th grade. I have this friend...my friend is really nice and all, but the problem is, my friend is a boy, and somehow the entire 6th grade has come to the conclusion that you can't have a male friend unless you start a romantic lovey-dovey relationship with him. So the girls at lunch and gym and stuff have started asking me stuff like, "Hey, are you going to ask him out yet?", and it's driving me crazy! I mean, I don't mind if I like accidentally fall in love with him or something, I just don't want to be FORCED to love him, y'know? I usually don't have a problem resisting peer pressure, I just want to know how I can make this situation little bit better.
2006-11-22 02:45:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
dont even worry about it, guys are the best kind of friends, they dont judge you, they dont hold grudges, theres no fight you cant just laugh off with them they dont care about alot and there always gunna be there if you find the right one i have one that ive had for the longest time and me and him might as well be related, and i have a bf, you can have both, but right now ur in 6th grade, live up life, dont even worry about guys he right one will find its way to you. Good Luck sweetie!
2006-11-22 04:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by Brittaney x3's Holden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey chick,
I am in 7th grade and I know what it's like for people to try to force you into doing things. Girl, I know it may seem like a big deal, but it's SO NOT. Just keep him as a friend, because, believe me, in 7th grade, it's AWESOME to haved a guy friend. Just remember to make good choices if you and this guy DO start going out! Good luck and I hope you find all that you're looking for!
2006-11-22 03:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by jerkchicken106 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt rush into a relationship with him ecspeacially if you guys are good friends because that can ruin you friendship possibly.. be careful when you decide what to do. And as for the other girls they may be jealous of your friendship with him that they are pressuring you to be more. Guy/Girl friendships are fine unless you do fall for one another but then if you both want the relationship go for it try it see what happens. Good Luck hopefully you do what YOU want and not what people are telling you to do!
2006-11-22 05:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Beautifully*Chaotic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i'm in 8th grade and i remember how that feels. but you just gotta live with it just say "hey ya know were friends, and girls if you are to stupid to have guys for friends then what is a boyfriend,huh, its a friend who's a boy that you just happen to be in love with, so i guess your not gonna ever have a boyfriend!" trust me this will all blow over...actually most of my friends now are guys and i like them just as well as i like my friends that are girls! to b honest i get along better with them then the girls somethimes!
2006-11-22 04:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Haley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them your personal life is your business and not theirs. It sounds like they are really jealous of you. It's too bad they only associate relationships with sex. It is obvious the guys they date only want to date them for one reason. You're one of the extremely lucky ones - your parents should be proud of you. It is normal to have a relationship without sex.
2006-11-22 06:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally okay to have a guy thats just a friend. Don't let those other people pressure you into going out with your friend.
2006-11-22 03:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by angelbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only in 6th grade you have time... they just need to get over themselves trust me im in 8th grade an its still like that.They r just jealous that they cant even get one boy to even be thier freind...k. it will be cool in the end
2006-11-22 03:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore. i would love to be back in that age and be able to tell them all off. but you cant change their minds or opinions you can only ignore them and just live you life.
2006-11-22 03:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to mind their business. unfortunately in school people always try to get in your business. do what you wanna do
2006-11-22 02:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE ALL THE OTHER IMMATURE, (JEALOUS) FOOLS........
Relax, and take your time with whatever you do
Good luck too.............;-)
2006-11-22 02:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋