Some teen question (girls)?

Question

Im in my room with major period pain and ways to help?
In class today me and my group 2 other girls and a boy got in to a discision about what base we got to, and lets say im inexperianced im a virgin in all sence of the word like i never made out with any one what would you have said in my position, the others were talking about when, when, WHO and i just sat there.
How do you ask a guy out in the least akward way?

im 15

Answer 1

For the period pain: a heating pad if you have one, if not maybe a warm washcloth on your abdomen, whatever you do dont take aspirin(increases blood flow)- so a different painkiller
For the virgin situation: I'm in the same place- either make a joke about yourself to lighten the situation, don't say anything, admit to being inexperienced, or subtly insult/criticize/be mean to them for being experienced, just don't make anything up
For the asking out- maybe on im or in an email or in a note (in person is the akwardest it can get)
good luck with everything

Answer 2

Hey. For the cramps/period pain the best thing is to take midol, it works every single time, just ask your mom to get it for you. And about the guy trouble: You're 15, so you should worry about it. I'm 17 and I still haven't rounded any bases and it doesn't bother me at all. It did a while ago, but then I read a story in 17 magazine where a girl who was in college said she was in the same situationas you, where her friends were talking about who they slept with and their first time and everything, and then she was so embarrassed cause she hadn't done anything, so she went out and lost her virginity to some random guy. Then when she told her friends about it they thought she was slutty and that she should've waited for the right person. So wait for a guy you like and who seems to like you and then just go out with him and it will happen from there. Doing stuff to just proove something to your friends is going to make you slutty.

Answer 3

About your cramps. Here's an answer I gave to someone else who had the same problem
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Here's what works for me is the following
(Not all done during the same day, but can be)

1) Take some asprin (I know U know)
2) Drink some ginger ale
3) Take a book or something to do and a water bottle and sit on the toilet till you fart, poop or feel a bit better. (I know it sounds gross but, in addition to cramps ya might have gas or have to poop and it's not coming out. Hurts like HECK!!)(The water bottle is there just in case UR there for a while and you need something to drink but can't or don't feel like getting up)

4) Gently massage cramping area (sometimes works)
5) Heating pads (I know U know)
6) Get in bed and find a comfortable position to lay in and watch TV, take a nap, or do something to get your mind off of the cramps. (I don't know about you, but they tend to hurt less when I'm not thinking about it)

7) Have some soup
8) Loosen any tight clothing or put on your pajamas

Try it. It works for me.

Answer 4

mmmm.... thats a toughy! But I was in the same exact situation in school. I was in sr.hg. and alot of my girl friends were sitting around talking about who they slept w/and what car they were in, 1 in the back seat,1 in the front.... I was so shocked. I just sat there. then they all giggled and said ha! look at her face! I thought to myself, don't u have any respect for urself? Now I am older w/2 kids and I still say hi when I see them but I feel so good about myself. All u remember about them is their slutty ways in school and so does every1 else. So let them talk. they r only making themselves look trampy! as for asking the guy out, I guess u just gotta come right out and say it. I know its easier said than done. Good Luck! and keep ur "good ways"!

Answer 5

4 cramps- this is soo crazy but for me- luaghter if im in a -im goin to kill u if u bother me- mood then i try to talk with my bffs about crazy stupid things and that makes me happy so i 4get all about it

and on sex- i soo wouldnt do it b/c rite now one of my bffs is pregnant at 15 and ttly regrets her first time and that she is pregnant and if i were u i ttly wouldnt have sex b/c the grl i kno feels soo bad and she really wishes that she didnt do it until she was really ready plus some boys just wont to use your body they will like go with u 4 a while, presure u into sex then never call u back just like u were only a booty call to him which ttly hurts ur self esteem (not all guys thu!) and even if u r super protected during sex u could still have a baby and im not ready to be a mom at 15 -plus it ttly can harm ur body bein pregnant at such a young age- hope that helps

Answer 6

WELL GURL I ADORE YOU FOR BEING A VIRGIN UNLIKE MOST TEENAGERS THESE DAYS. IM NOT A VIRGIN & IM 5 WEEKS PREGNANT SO JUST KEEP BEING A VIRGIN. I WISH I COULD HAVE WAITED BUT NOW IM STUCK WITH ANOTHER LIFE IN ME. BUT ANYWAYS WHEN I ASKED OUT A GUY FOR THE FIRST TIME I WROTE HIM A SIMPLE LETTER STATING THE FACT THAT I WAS CRUSHING ON HIM. AND GUESS WHAT HE LIKED ME IN RETURN AND WE ARE STILL TOGETHER AND HE IS THE FATHER OF THE BABY. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 6 MONTHS NOW. AND FOR THE CRAMPS JUST TAKE A WARM SOOTHING BATH. THAT ALWAYS HELPED ME. OH YEAH AND IM 14.

Answer 7

I'm glad u brought that up. I understand where u are coming from. I t just depends on wat u wanna do. I would advise u to simply tell them u haven't done anything yet. Believe it or not, that is a VERY good thing! Or if you want, you can keep it to urself. Don't feel obligated to tell them ur business because it is your business. If you ignored everything I just wrote, Id like you to pay attention 2 this: DO NOT FORCE YOURSELF TO EXPERIENCE THOSE THINGS SO YOU CAN BE LIKE YOUR FRIENDS. Wait til someone important comes along. As far as sex is concerned, wait til ur married or @ least old enough to handle the responsibilities that come along with having a sex life.
(I'm 16, just in case u wanted to know.Email me if u have any further questions)
God Bless!
Bye!

Answer 8

How old are you?? Tell them the truth. Tell them you're not ready or you just haven't found someone you like enough to kiss or go farther. If they are your friends, they won't say anything bad about you. And if they're not your friends, then who cares, ignore them.

As for asking a guy out, wait until you're walking to class together with just the two of you. See if he wants to go to the school play or football game together.

Answer 9

i'm also 15 but unlike you, i have much experience... i lost my virginity when i was just 14. at first, i didn't have regrets but now, i'm starting to feel sorry for what i did. Me and my boyfriend just broke up and lossing him made me feel like loosing everything... I guess it would be better if i waited for the right time to come. now i feel like nothing is left for me...

don't let other people affect your decisions... if you feel that nothing is wrong in being innocent, then stay that way. it didn't hurt being like that right?... so, it would be better to not to take risks just because of your peers... i was once pregnant but got miscarriage in the 3rd week... you wouldn't want that to happen to you right....

if you need some one to talk to... i'm just here for you...

Answer 10

Be proud that u are a virgin just tell him hey i am a virgin so i havent really gotten to that point yet and i dont plan on getttin they any time soon! That is all i say and if u say it with confidence than most ppl dont care! Ppl always ask me and i just say i am a virgin cause i want to respect my body! just dont freak out about it!