Adolescent - October 2006

im 14 and sort of get atracted to boys and men.i dont think im a whole gay or something cause i even get atracted to girls in my class.even when i surf on the net i search for gay sites.im teased in school saying that i am gay or im teased by saying that im some other guy who is gay.im also paired with a boy who is very dumb and girlish.i just cant take all this anymore.i havent told anyone anything before.i just hate being gay or called so.i want everyone to stop saying that i am gay.how do i make my self get attracted to girls and become a man a real man though i posses some girlish characteristics i cook and clean quite well and i have some qualities that are more likely found in girls.i dont mind that but i mind what other people think about me.some one please help me out.im desperate to stop gay urges and become a man.but I CANNOT LET ANYONE KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT ALL THIS i need to do everything on my own

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

2006-10-22 00:32:34 · 16 answers · asked by big boy 1

as well as her mother, my daughter is 15years old, up until now we have had a really close relationship, now she is branching out, talking back a little, not cheeky, but enough for me to notice she has changed, and her attitude has changed, any advice!

2006-10-21 20:53:10 · 40 answers · asked by Little miss naughty 5

and do u think he's a lucky sob if he got away with it?
liek he didnt go to jail, or she got an abortion, etc.

2006-10-21 19:32:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Iv heard my bff say she wonders what it feels like to be with a girl but then she says shes kidden but im not sure and well i do whant to know............. soooooooooo how can i like find out the truth and convinser to u know

ps:no mean coments plz

2006-10-21 19:29:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my boyfriend today and he was MAD. Is that the way it's supposed to be? Shouldn't he be sad? I asked him if we could just be friends and he said "Is that the best you can do?" He was really rude about it and so I feel like I did the right thing... except I took a load of bull from him.

Should I have hung up? I want to know if I'm supposed to tell everyone everything or just leave it as something simple like, "well.. he was just immature." I broke up with him because we have extremely different religious/political views and... well I just don't like him!

Is that a good enough reason to break up with someone? Something just didn't feel right and I didn't care enough to fix it. Does that make me self-centered?

And why did he tell me I deserve for him to tell everyone that I'm a lesbian?

2006-10-21 19:12:43 · 11 answers · asked by E 2

Who's fault is it and what should I do?

2006-10-21 18:56:23 · 29 answers · asked by Ginger C 2

O-k there is this guy that rides my bus that i am friends with I never thought about going out with him and when I did it was like gross or yuck but then i had this dream about us making out and me giving him a ********.then a couple days later he asked me if i was going to the school dance and i told him know cause i didnt have a ride cause i was going to ride with 1 of my neighbors that also rides my bus but her car ended up being too full and he wanted me to go to the dance and he even offered me a ride i told him no and that i couldnt go cause the dance was in like 4 hours and my mom wasnt going to be home till 8 or 9 that night. but what could this mean?????? I need help

2006-10-21 18:47:26 · 10 answers · asked by ? 4

it seems that every boy i like is already attached is thiss some kind if mental disorder for example i liked my bff crush but when she stopped liking him i did to and its not just my bff its any ones bf or crush i think i need a theripist

2006-10-21 18:40:59 · 6 answers · asked by animallover 2

there is this guy that i have been crushing on since last year, but he never liked me cuz i was a dork, and i never talked to him. this year, i am popular, and i feel more confident. i sit next to him in science and math, but he has history and english with me too. we started out talking to eachother randomly and then we started talking more and more. he asks me questions, jokes around with me and smiles, he also laughes at my not so funny jokes. my friends say i should ask him out, but what if he says no? i dont want it to be awkward for the rest of the year cuz it was just getting good. i cant get him out of my head and i think hes SUPER HOT! he is nice and sweet and i like him, i just hope that we could be together. what should i do?? HELP!

2006-10-21 18:38:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-21 18:31:12 · 16 answers · asked by prozacqueen 1

He looks up @ me every morning when I come into homeroom. A lot of times he'll look @ me when I'm talking and sometimes he'll even join the conversation. He gets up in my face sometimes, not as much as he used 2. He used 2 shout really rude things across the room @ me, but he hasn't done that in a while. So what does it sound like? does he like me but he's just shy about it? if he does, what can I do 2 keep it goin? thanks!

2006-10-21 17:56:39 · 8 answers · asked by 77684 3

2006-10-21 17:28:36 · 21 answers · asked by bob z 1

I am trying not to get pregnant but 1st tyme having sex so is it better to use two or one! I am on birth control as well. ALSO wut iz da best brand of condoms to use?

2006-10-21 17:01:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-21 16:52:22 · 17 answers · asked by aerithgal12 1

i'm sick and I feel like I have to puke REALLY bad but, when I go to the bathroom and try to nothing happens. What do I do?

2006-10-21 16:47:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

yeah i know this question might be asked a lot...but what do you think of a 15 yr old girl getting pregnant?im 15 too but not pregnant. Babies are cute and especially the belly(lol) but im not ready yet...but i see so so so many girls around in my school who are like 15 and already gave birth or are about to give birth like in a month...give your opinion....

2006-10-21 16:21:44 · 15 answers · asked by AG 2

Mom is a sports nut and always has been, but son seems to have no interest in sports whatsoever

2006-10-21 15:26:55 · 16 answers · asked by bowlinbby 1

i kinda whant to know why nobody likes me? its not that im ugly...all my friends say im like gorgeous... and i have a pertty good personality, im friends with everyone in my school and im really friendly... but i still havent had any guys ask me to the up comeing school dance?
im only 13. its not really that important. but it just bugs me
...

why dont they like me?




if you have nothing nice to say please dont say anything at all.

2006-10-21 15:18:01 · 23 answers · asked by Lisa 3

Okay, here's the story my close friend and this guy used to date, I became close to him cause well they dated for a year, she left him, he's a wreak I thought he was getting better we used to talk all the time and now lately he won't really talk, and when he does talk to me its usually pretty depressing, he lost a parent last year as well so he's still getting over that, I think this may of pushed him over the edge, idk what to do he's my friend and I'm afraid of losing his friendship, I can't even really talk to him anymore its all really crappy, and I'm still friends with his ex who left him and she keeps messing with him *examples, writting him notes during class* though she'll make me deliver them. .. sigh :( THIS IS REALLY BUGGING ME SO PLEASE ANYONE CAN YOU HELP!

2006-10-21 15:16:54 · 5 answers · asked by R.R 3

2006-10-21 14:45:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

slow dance songs
for high school

2006-10-21 14:40:32 · 5 answers · asked by (Vicki) 2

When I registered her, I was concerned about fraud, so I didn't put in her real birthdate or our real zip code. Now I don't know it! I don't want to have her e-mail account deleted, I want to see the e-mails she's been sending because I think she may be getting into trouble.

2006-10-21 14:36:38 · 12 answers · asked by suebeezee 1

im 15 and i really want to be normal...i know its comming soon, like really soon, but i dont want to wait. so if yu have secrets to get period sooner, bring it on.

2006-10-21 14:23:15 · 17 answers · asked by jennifaaa 1

my daughter who is 13 talks on the phone for hours with boys she knows through other friends or from school, appropriate or not, your opinion please

2006-10-21 14:23:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an 11 year old who is very mature and i think she is old enough. She of course would have her cell phone, and be out with alot of friends. ( which are all also very mature)

2006-10-21 12:06:31 · 24 answers · asked by loser7 1

and if so.... wut city. im jus really bored. do you have aim? and im 13 by the way

2006-10-21 12:03:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay heres my dilemma. My bf and I are having unprotected sex, but we are using the pull out method. After he pulls out he ejaculates just on the top of my vagina, could there be a high chance that Im pregnant?

2006-10-21 11:28:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend has an aunt thats younger than her and shes not lying i met her before

2006-10-21 11:19:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 12 years old

2006-10-21 10:44:00 · 15 answers · asked by :) 3

do you think aeropostale will be an expensive designer make or not?

2006-10-21 10:08:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous