Adolescent - October 2006

I'm a senior in high school and i'm pregnant with my best friends baby...he has a girlfriend and i feel terrible for making such a stupid mistake and sleeping with my friend, and also being the other women. I always said if something like this happened to me I would keep the baby, but now im not so sure...i'm smart i get A's and i plan to attend college next year, plus i've drank and smoked almost everyweekend since we had sex and im scared that even if i had the baby wouldnt he or she have problems. I dont know what to do i think i def. wanna have an abortion but im scared and i dont know if i should even tell the father, because we've been best friends all of high school, and we never even kissed until that night and i really like him, a lot and i'm afraid if i tell him that im pregnant even though im going to have an abortion he'll become really distant. so basically i need to know...should i have an abortion and if i do should i tell the father

2006-10-31 05:11:49 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

well should i tell my parents or not please answer me

2006-10-31 03:33:51 · 34 answers · asked by Shamika S 1

My brother recently discovered one of his stepdaughters 18yr old friends , both are seniors in high school, was working as a dancer in a recently opened gentlemens club. His stepdaughters boyfriend's, friends went to the club and saw her. With the influx of strip clubs in our area more young women are turning to these places for quick cash and a way to move out on their own as soon as they turn 18, most of these young women have been having problems at home or school. As far as we know her parents do not know, she lives with a roomate on her own so we do not know how much contact she has with them. As every young woman dancing in these clubs or acting in sex films are someones daughter, how would you react if it was one of your daughter/sons friends or your own daughter ?

2006-10-31 02:05:29 · 17 answers · asked by badmikey4 4

How do i deal with a very hormonal teenager who is being extremely nasty, so much so he had his grandmother in tears and i have had to bring him to work for the day - HELP

2006-10-30 22:10:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a new partner and the only thing we row over is my 15 yr old son.
He isnt too bad, comes in on time, washes up if i ask, and ask and ask. But he is very imature and agravates me and my partner by being really silly. acting clownish. he also swears a lot.
the trouble starts when my partner tries to intervene which he doesnt often, only when hes had enough. then we clash and he says i make too many excuses for my son. We need to be united in the way we deal with this to diffuse the situation, as i dont want to lose the great relationship i have with my son and dont want to lose my partner either.

2006-10-30 21:45:55 · 16 answers · asked by anni333 2

My daughter spends alot of time with my ex husband's new wife's niece who doesn't live with them. My daughter goes to this nieces home and spends the night with her. Am I being silly or is my daughter being exposed to stuff she may not be old enough to understand at this age?

2006-10-30 19:02:04 · 18 answers · asked by cecimad 2

i don't like him that much anyway.

2006-10-30 16:32:34 · 21 answers · asked by Doc C 1

okay, do like girls who are sporty, sing, dance, have brown hair, busty, brown eyes, good figure, tall, sort of model like, and who have a baby face that sort of looks like Natalie Wood/ Drew Barrymore?
i want to know?

2006-10-30 16:04:15 · 17 answers · asked by (Beautiful Disaster) 3

my big bro (marques) decided it was funny to be "me" and got into my yahoo and started messing with people..... some of my answers arent "mine" lol its hard to believe hes my big brother he costs me so many points ps:sorry princess dancer it wasnt me!!!!!!!!!! lmao confusion huh? wasnt this immature of him?

2006-10-30 15:14:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-30 14:56:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-30 14:40:22 · 9 answers · asked by gman 1

I need a step-by-step answer. teacher makes us show work.

14-(2q+5) = -2q+q

2006-10-30 14:20:27 · 14 answers · asked by Kyndal14 2

just wondering...

2006-10-30 13:55:29 · 4 answers · asked by chibisu 2

okay my frend her mom n dad r like fightin n well she is getting irritated she is like my best frend n so yesterdy she was like about 2 commit suicide scary ye real yea sad phh yea n well i don't want her 2 do sumthing like that so pleaze will u help me she is like going EMO no offense to those who r emo n stuff but i don't want her 2 do suicide n well she really needs help soo like hep me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! O YEA DON'T ANSWER IF UR GONNA PUT STUPID ANSWERES OR IT NOT EVEN BEING RELATED JUST ANSWER IF U R GONNA GIVE ME SUM ADVICE OR IN WAT 2 GELP HER!!!!!!!!!!!!! P.S we have peer mediation in our skool should i like put her 4 that?

2006-10-30 13:24:41 · 26 answers · asked by short stuff 4

I mentor 14 yr old teen and I have a problem with his mom right now. I made plans to take him to a sporting event this Saturday and had cleared it with her several weeks ago. I bought tickets ($50). I now learn that they are going to New york city that day only 5 days before. Also, I need to tell you, he isn't doing well in school and one of the incentives I've given him to improve is grades is that if his next report card is good, that I would take him on a trip to New York for the weekend ( we live fairly close to NYC). This is a trip that he wants to do. His Mom is aware of this incentive and his grades have not improved. I feel that she is totally undermining me on trip and I'm pretty upset about it along with the fact that I have made time for her son and bought tickets to the event. We have been open with each other in the past. Should I confront her about this? Should I explain how I feel about this trip? Should she be taking him to NYC when his grades are not good?

2006-10-30 12:54:40 · 6 answers · asked by jjohnpeterman 1

what are the changes teens going through after become parents?

2006-10-30 12:31:39 · 6 answers · asked by Seductive 1

what are the changes teens going through after become parents?

2006-10-30 12:28:02 · 1 answers · asked by Seductive 1

2006-10-30 11:38:56 · 23 answers · asked by honey_raindropz 1

Im pregnant and im only 17. Im kinda scared. My mom, my bf, his mom, and grandparents know. But Im not sure what to do. I just moved to a diff state with my bf and i dont know anybody. My miss my family and friends. What do i do? :(

2006-10-30 11:38:01 · 9 answers · asked by taz 1

I have been feeling very stressed and it is starting to effect my body.I'm not having problems at home or at school,but my mind just feels so over- worked and stressed out.My body has also been feeling weak,and insanely uncomfortable/awkward.I take naps more often,and when I wake up I feel very sore.I'm also starting to lash out at family members without thinking about ti beforehand ,and thier reactions often add to my buisy mind's stress.
Recently everything feels so wrong and "sharp".Every noise seems to be sounds like breaking glass.
What can I do (besides anything that requires me to shove a pill down my throat) to get rid of this?

2006-10-30 11:32:03 · 6 answers · asked by Myaloo 5

if you somehow got stranded on a deserted island with your crush? [ answers that include 'sex' won't be picked as best]

2006-10-30 11:18:45 · 19 answers · asked by K 3

Im 15 and my friend is 14. She is a goth. She is throwining a pity party for herself saying she has no friends because of something that happened about Halloween. It is so not true during lunch we are surrounded by friends, having good times and laughing she defintly has friends. She also keeps calling herself fat because she is overweight ( not badly) and calls her self ugly. She isn't ugly at all. People tell her this all the time that shes not ugly. She thinks shes worthless because she doesn't have a bf and hasn't in a year or two. How do I make her snap out of this and show her she is not ugly, fat and does have friends. Get her out of this poor pity me thing. Thanks in advance

2006-10-30 10:50:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my moms asleep nothing on tv friends are busy or not there so if u want to talk IM me or check my profile.

2006-10-30 10:50:16 · 11 answers · asked by renee 1

ok so my friend is anorexic and i think bulemic i kno this because she almost never eats and when i ask her y not she just gets mad and i think she is bulemic cause one time i was over her house and ordered out pizza and she ate a lot of the pizza and i was so happy that she was eating but then 15min later she ran 2 the bathroom i couldnt tell 4 sure if she was throwing up but it sounded like it anyways so one time i slept over her house and i asked her and she just started crying so i didnt bring it up again but i have been noticing that she looks WAY 2 thin! latley she has always been close 2 underweight but now WOW she is unhealthy skinny but the problem is that we got into a fight and she is rlly mad at me (the fight wasnt about her eating disorder) and she wont talk 2 me but im worried about her soo much! i cant tell her mom or dad because her dad is out of the picture in her life and her mom dosnt care no rlly she dosnt care at ALL!!! so i dont kno what i should and can do 4 her?

2006-10-30 10:37:53 · 6 answers · asked by cause im cool!!! 1

steal her boyfriend and make her mad she is really popular and beautiful and mean im in between i'm tired of being the nice girl should I take him?

2006-10-30 10:31:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can someone give me a current event? Something that has happened recently that isn't too big of an even but something I would be able to write a paper on? I know this is in the wrong section, but the homework help section is extremely slow and not alot of people are on there. Any ideas? Thanks!

2006-10-30 09:06:07 · 14 answers · asked by CityChild 1

What qualities in a girl do you like and dislike??

2006-10-30 08:42:01 · 10 answers · asked by 12 yr old boi crazzi gurl 2

Currently mentoring a young teen boy for 1 &1/2 years. We get along pretty good and have fun together when we do things. We do lost of stuff, hanging out, hockey games, etc.. For the most part I have kept things fun. He has shown little initiative in our relationship. He never calls me. I must initiate any contact and I do all the planning. Which for the most part is to be expected, but I believe that after a year and a half, that he should be showing some ownership of the friendship aka a phone call or something. I even asked him to call me this weekend and let me know how his soccer tournament went and he never called. I have also been catching him in lies lately about school, etc... He has problems with school and has not been open to me helping him (his mom is no help in this matter). Am I expecting too much? Should I push him to take some ownership? Should I make him bring his homework over when he comes to my house? It make me mad that he shows no ownership at all.

2006-10-30 07:58:08 · 7 answers · asked by jjohnpeterman 1

I don't mean babysitting or mowing the lawn or anything. I heard at my school that you can get a job at the commissary bagging, but you only work for tips. I also heard that you can get a job there pushing carts. Any truth to this? Thanks.

2006-10-30 05:50:39 · 11 answers · asked by Sarcasm Queen 3

2006-10-30 05:26:10 · 13 answers · asked by kmoc123 5