How do i deal with a very hormonal teenager who is being extremely nasty, so much so he had his grandmother in tears and i have had to bring him to work for the day - HELP
2006-10-30 22:10:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im a teenager to. so just talk to him and see why he has so much anger maybe you can try work things out together remember its hard for us expiriencing all these new things scary to good luck :) x
2006-10-30 22:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by francho 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its true that teenagers can be moody but its not a licence to be extremely nasty. he should be begining to take increasing amounts of responsibility for himself as he is nearing adulthood. obviously some 'attitude' is just best ignored, however teenagers still need boundaries just like children. try asking the boy why he has said these things and discuss with him the impact on other people. also suggest that he has a responsibility to deal with others in more respectful ways. ask him how he can deal better with his gran in future etc. if he wont engage with this discussion just tell him flat out that its unacceptable and that you wont put up with it. why did you have to take him to work? it sounds like you are potentially making a rod for your own back if you keep doing that. good luck.
2006-10-30 22:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by duncan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send him on a religious retreat. he cud probably get reformed and more peaceful with all the wisely soul searching talks. or enrol him for training in the armed forces. he will be glad to channelise his energies in a more positive and disciplined way.
2006-10-30 22:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by GAWD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a taste of his own medicine. I was a particularly bitchy teenager, but I've grown into a polite, pleasant woman(thanks to my mum)
2006-10-30 22:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by siany warny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not so much the kid, sweetie, but your lack of parenting skills. Most of the time they want attention and not criticism. Try a new approach and change YOUR bahavior.
2006-10-30 22:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds about par for the course.
2006-10-30 22:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have got the same problem with my "lovely" teenage daughter.
And if you get any advice please pass it my way.
Just thought you would like to know, your not alone with this problem, and one day you will look back at this all and laugh!!
2006-10-30 22:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by scragette2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you have a belt??
Smack him with it, sounds like he has no respect, teach him some.
2006-10-30 23:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him or take him to doctor
2006-10-30 23:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by varun_me15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her/him talk to a doctor.
2006-10-30 22:12:36 · answer #10 · answered by Gurlie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋