okay my frend her mom n dad r like fightin n well she is getting irritated she is like my best frend n so yesterdy she was like about 2 commit suicide scary ye real yea sad phh yea n well i don't want her 2 do sumthing like that so pleaze will u help me she is like going EMO no offense to those who r emo n stuff but i don't want her 2 do suicide n well she really needs help soo like hep me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! O YEA DON'T ANSWER IF UR GONNA PUT STUPID ANSWERES OR IT NOT EVEN BEING RELATED JUST ANSWER IF U R GONNA GIVE ME SUM ADVICE OR IN WAT 2 GELP HER!!!!!!!!!!!!! P.S we have peer mediation in our skool should i like put her 4 that?
2006-10-30 13:24:41 · 26 answers · asked by short stuff 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
NO!!!do NOT put her threw peer mediation. talking with skool mates isn't gonna help none, cuz like you said there just gonna call her emo and crap like that. Be there for her, and do random but daily checks to see if she has done anyhting to herself, if she has don't make a huge deal out of it, but let her now that this is NOT the right thing to do and she will love her life eventually. If you ever see anything sharp, like saftey pins a sharp pencil, anyhting to the sort, take it away from her. Let her know that it's ok to talk to someone, it would be nice if she would talk to you. Don't push her to tell you though, just let her know that you're there for her anytime that she needs you, no matter what's going on in your life. Don't tell her about your problems durning this time either. that's the last thing that she needs, cuz then that's adding more stress to her life. she dont' need any of that. When. if someone calls her emo or anything else to the sort, defend her. keep repeating yourself about telling her that it's ok to talk to you or someone else that's close and telling her that everything will be ok at the end. I went threw the same thing, both me and my best friend tried to commit. we brought each other threw it and now our friendship is closer then ever. nothing could break our bonds now. I HOPE THIS HELPS YOU OUT!!!!!
Chelsie
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any more questions or anything else please ask!!!
2006-10-30 13:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Chels 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not sure how old you are but you are not trained to handle this kind of a situation. You need to talk it over with someone older that you can trust. I would suggest your mother if the two of you are close. If not please talk to a teacher or a counselor at school. It is not fair for you to be trying to deal with this on your own. You need some help. Find the right person to talk to about this and don't wait too long to do it either.
Love and Blessings
Lady T~
2006-10-30 13:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Trinity 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL AN ADULT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That is the only thing that will help your friend. if you are not comfortable talking to your parents tell a trusted teacher or other adult. your friend needs help and fast! you could also call the suicide hot line and tell then what is going on. you should put her up for peer meditation. she needs to rethink her values in like. make sure that you tell her that you will be with her every step of the way. someone going through that much emotional stress really needs someone to be there to back them up and who they can lean on. make sure you show her how great life really is!
2006-10-30 13:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by gallopingboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why cant u tell her, its her life, if she love her life, why does she thinks of stupid things...so what if she has problems with her parents, i think she should talk to her parents that making each other's a hell wld make her feel comfortable, that if they love her, try to solve. not fighting...if it makes it better, u talk to her, and tell her u'll be there if she wants help like talking to her parents in person... or something, suicide doesnt solve anything... if u really cant help, get help from the school councellor, they will talk to ur friend's parents, and u wont be involved with their problem then...its the best so far...
2006-10-30 14:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mellyssa N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 13:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 12 or so my parents were divorced and i took it really hard also. one thing your friend needs to understand is this is not her fault, and her mum and dad love her no matter what happens with them.
if she was going to take her own life it would only make it harder on her family and no one wants to see that happen.
you should try and get her to speak to her school councillor he/she may have some sort of activity or routine to help her take her mind off things..
she should also talk to her family and tell them whats going on if they understand just how much this is affecting her they can sit down and talk to her about it and try and figure out a way to get along for her sake..
my parents tried to get back together for our sake and everytime it just got worse on us and i think we were better off when they were not together, but everyone is different.
ask her to your house for a weekend see if your mum will let you and just hire outsome movies or do what ever it is you guys are interested in to make her happy make it a weekend without thinking about whats going on with her mum and dad. just keep being a good friend
2006-10-30 13:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You poor girl, my friend went like that and turned me like that so make sure you stay as happy as possible.
Try to talk her out of it by pointing out the good points to her life eg. you and other friends. Also point out the flaws there is whole list of them on my Piczo website so go onto the website below with her and go on the Don't die page (it's the one at the bottom of the my pages list).
2006-10-31 06:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by trust_amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to either your parents about it,or an adult that you feel comfortable with,whether it's a teacher at school,or an aunt or uncle.In the meantime,just be their for your friend,listen to her when she feels like talking about things,but if you are going to do this,please if possible talk to some one your self,whether it's a school counsellor,or a parent,as listening to peoples problems can be very stressful on a person,whether they are aware of it or not.I hope that your friend is feeling alot better about herself very soon.take care.
2006-10-30 17:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are doing the right thing whit the peer mediation plus if she is your best friend then you know her mom and she needs to know. if not her then a teacher or somebody that can help because when someone talks about suicide that is a cry for help before they do it.
2006-10-30 13:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by teresa.edmonds@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She does need to talk to someone, and I know how she feels.. my parents always were at it and I felt the same way she did. Talking does help! look in your local area phone book and get the crisis teen hotline or suiside hotline for your area. She might need some medication to help out (paxil) or something . good luck!!~!
2006-10-30 13:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by JohnnaE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋