Okay heres my dilemma. My bf and I are having unprotected sex, but we are using the pull out method. After he pulls out he ejaculates just on the top of my vagina, could there be a high chance that Im pregnant?
2006-10-21 11:28:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hun,the chance is extremely high.Anytime you have unprotected intercourse you are putting yourself at a risk of getting pregnant.Never use,"pulling out" as a method of birth control,as there are women who get pregnant from pre-ejaculate which contains sperm.You must wait until your missed period of course,nearly a week after for the most accurate result.If your period is absent,go to your local drug store and purchase an at home pregnancy test.Better yet,go to a gyno and allow them to give you a blood test,it is a bit more accurate anyway,and they can tell a bit faster.If you are pregnant they can give you information you may need such as which prenatal vitamins are best for you as well as which medications you can and/or cannot take etc.If you are not pregnant,you can speak to them about getting placed on birth control.Remember that birth control isnt 100% effective,and it doesnt prevent the contractions of std's so have another form of protection available.Anytime you engage in sexual activities,you are placing yourself at a risk.The only method of birth control that is 100% effective is not engaging in sexual activities at all,so consider that.Good luck hun,and please be careful.
I was reading through some of the other answers just now,and i noticed that some are not so nice.Hun,no one has a right or a reason to judge you.Do not allow them to get to you,because they are not worth it.If they judge it is only because they are unhappy with themselves,therefore they make others feel bad about themselves to make them miserable too.
2006-10-21 12:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course girl, these millions of sperm are live - like live animals with one aim and that is to get to your potential eggs. If your mother hasnt explained this then I feel sorry for you. Sex is an open subject in our house and my children are well advised, even my 10 year old. Pre-ejeculate fluid also can contain sperm. You are never 100% safe, no matter what. The Pill can be obtained from your Doctor and he WILL NOT tell your parents, it is said to be the most effective - 99%. But it never hurts to use a condom anyway especially at your age. Even though not failsafe as they can and DO break, protection is best from sexually transmitted deseases. You dont really know how many partners this boy has had in the past. Be safe, be sure, pop a pill and have a condom in your drawer. All the best, Campergirl - Age 45. Hope Ive been helpful. xxx
2006-10-21 18:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might NOT be pregnant now, but you could get pregnant. Sperm can still leak out while you are doing the deed and you can get pregnant.
Even if he didn't do it inside you.
Sperm can live for up to 3 days inside a Virgina.
If he is doing it on top of you like that, it can still leak and get inside your Virgina, but that might not conceive as quickly. I wouldn't say that you have a HIGH chance of getting pregnant with him doing it there, but there is a possibility.
If you don't want to get pregnant I suggest using protection. If you want to have unprotected sex with less risk, maybe you should look into birth control?
The only other option would be having him *** somewhere else, or maybe keep a towel handy.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
2006-10-21 18:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by obsessedwithshamrockgreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it, but yes, it's possible. Maybe not high, but it happens.
If it turns out to be a false alarm, try combining the pull-out method with the rhythm method. But neither method will protect you from disease, and you really should try to get your hands on some condoms and use those.
A baby is a huge responsibility. Even an abortion will haunt you the rest of your life. Take measures to protect yourself, and have a baby *when* you want a baby.
2006-10-21 18:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Madame M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only can the pull out method fail as far as pregnancy it doesnt keep you protected from STDs eighter. So yes there is a chance you can be pregnant and you also better get checked for STd's unless he is your first you have slept with everyone he has been with
2006-10-21 18:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by onehotmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a definite chance you are pregnant. Not only from any semen that is near your vagina but from the sperm that are also in the pre ejaculate he releases before he pulls out.
2006-10-21 18:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Love Birth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As humans we make mistakes. Well honey this is a sure fine way to get pregnant. Having a baby when you are not ready is not good, but you can make it. If you are not ready to have a baby please use some sort of protection or ask him too. Forgive the rude people on here because sometimes their brains over take, the part of their hearts that help them to understand we are all different. ( god never gives you more then you can handle) Courtney
2006-10-21 19:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! The pull out method is NOT reliable! There is actually some sperm in the pre-ejaculation lubricant that a man secretes. In addition...there is a reason why they call them little swimmers!!
2006-10-21 18:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the pull out method is a sure fire way to have a baby. During sex, small amount of semen leak out of the penis, that small amount is all it takes to have enough sperm to get preggers, since it only takes one strong swimmer to get preggers. You need to start using condoms, haven't you ever heard of AIDS, herpes, syphilis, etc.? don't worry so much about getting pregnant using the pull out method worry about getting a disease that can last your whole life and ruin your sex life forever, or even worse, kill you. USE A CONDOM, EVERY TIME!
2006-10-21 18:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by hargonagain 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
okay, i won't comment on how unreliable it is to use the pull out method, but you aren't even doing it if he's cumming all over you. Your supposed keep the sperm AS FAR AWAY from your ovaries as you can get if you don't wanna have a baby. And yes, you can get knocked up this way!
2006-10-21 18:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by anarchycreations 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋