Well I think being pregnant is a huge responsiblity and being so young is another thing.The question is:How are we gonna provide for our kids? I mean we know they are cute but lets not forget all the things they need.I attend a school that has a high rate in teen pregnancies and most of dem tell me that it wasn't planned and they are struggling with school and their child! Our education in school is alot and there are gonna be many dayz when we have to stay home and care for our baby and that will slow us down in school. But just think about it when we get out of school/college...we will be able to provide our kids with better things! I don't know if you are thinking bout gettin pregnant but think about the keyword RESPONSIBLITY!
*hope diz helped*
2006-10-21 16:35:38
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answered by Anonymous
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I will tell you this once you have a baby your life is over with put on hold for 18 years so do you really think it is cute now?
I know people make mistakes...Some mean too and some don't.
I was 21 when i had my child and even though i wouldn't take anything for my son and i love him so much i wish i would have waited until maybe like now (i am 27 years old)
My sister is pregnant right now and she is 17. She is shocked and has been crying and so depressed. She truely didn't want to get pregnant (she was on birth control pills). I feel so sorry for her but she is going to try to make the best of it and i will help her. She is 5 weeks but i am telling you PLEASE don't get pregnant so early in your teens..
You have until way in your 40's to have a kid, live your life now.
Good luck to you
2006-10-21 18:04:00
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends. If you're 15 and pregnant and act like my moron of a cousin, being pregnant is the stupidist thing you could do. At 15 you can't have a job, can't afford diapers, formula, clothes, doctor bills, not to mention pay for a baby sitter while you're in school. Most likely your parents will have the baby because you will be too busy laying in the middle of the road because you didn't "feel" like going into the house tto lie down (once again describing my cousin). I was 17 when I got pregnant, 18 when I had my daughter. My fiance had a great job, we had a place of our own to live in, had medical insurance on our baby, both of us had finished school. There's a difference in what you are able to do and what you can't do. When the can'ts outweigh the cans, having a child should be the furthest thing from a someone's mind.
2006-10-21 16:28:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Me I got pregnant at 18, which is young but 15 to me seems a bit way too young cause you really are still a kid, and in school it is allot to handle when you are that age, you don't get great sleep at night, you have lots to pay for and someone that is depending on you with their life, you cant get a good steady job at 15 cause you need to be in school, 18 it was hard to handle but I luckily had a great guy the father that was willing to go out and get three jobs so we could move in together and support us, their aren't too many guys out there like that, the ones that do have guys like that are very lucky cause I am sure it is extremely hard to raise a kid on your own, with parents or not, so I would say wait until your older and all your time that you want to go hang out with friends or go to parties are gone and your ready to settle down whether your in your 20's or 30's, just make sure you are willing to give allot of that up when you do have a child/
2006-10-21 16:39:48
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answered by Lisha 3
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What happens to the majority of girls who become teenage mothers is they have a really hard time getting back to school and end up with really low paying jobs. So if you want to have nice things and be able to give your children nice things thats probably not a good idea. Not to mention ever being able to buy a house or nice car or education for your children. Whats the hurry? You have a lifetime to have kids. Enjoy yourself and your childhood because thats what you re supposed to do!! Having children is SO much responsibility! Take if from me, I had my son at 19 and even that was young. Luckily my husband has a good paying job so we could afford to send me to college. It doesn't always work out like that.
2006-10-21 17:53:53
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answered by amandavictoria 2
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well if your gonna have sex you better be prepared for the consequences. i know a few ppl who got pregnant when they were 13 and had a kid when they were 14. well i think babies are so cute too and the belly looks cute, but im soo not looking forward to the morning sickness and the stretch marks lol. i guess theres pros and cons to having a kid, and it must be hard for 15 yr olds to have kids since there just kids themselves. its kinda sad that they have to grow up so fast.
2006-10-21 16:30:00
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answered by Anonymous
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The human body is capable of reproduction much sooner than the mind, emotions, and financial capabilites are ready. And the sad part is that these young girls having babies interrupt their educations, and their futures. Babies change your way of life, and limit you to caring for them almost exclusively until they are 18.
You are smart to question what you see around you and be thankful that you are intelligent enough to make the right choices.
2006-10-21 16:26:55
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answered by snvffy 7
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a 15 yr old girl is wayyyy too young to have a child, because you're only sophomore in high school, not mature enough yet to raise a kid, and you have no job, a kid shouldn't have a baby, sometimes not even a 25 yr old is ready to have a kid, because they haven't gotten a steady job to support a kid, so therefore 15 is wayyyy too young to have a kid. you should think of finishing high school and go to college, not thinking of having a kid.
2006-10-21 16:26:23
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answered by superboredom 6
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OMG! Having a baby is sooo hard. ur too young--enjoy ur teenage yrs. think about how much you would be giving up 2 have a kid. and then theres college for the child, finances, a permanent father? there are sooo many things to consider. Hold off.
2006-10-21 18:20:50
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think it is smart. You will have to take a lot of responsibility. You will not be able to play sports anymore. You would have to be a grown up and never do anything fun. Come on girl have fun. Don't get pregant while you are only 15.
2006-10-22 04:55:27
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answered by hot stuff 1
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