Are there any appropriate ways to discipline an older teenager, particularly ones who are college students who are home for the summer?
Obviously, they are way too old for stuff like "No TV" or "No video games." And I'm sure that most people would argue that even "grounding" them for a week or two is no longer appropriate at that age.
It just seems like there are two opposite extremes for dealing with discipline problems for kids that age - a lecture (but no real punishment) for smaller problems, or throwing them out of the house (which seems absurd to do to a 19 year old unless it is a very serious problem.)
Is there any sort of appropriate, in-between "substantive" discipline to deal with problems that actually require something more than just a lecture? If they choose to live at home at that age, they still have to abide by some basic rules, and there should be some consequences for breaking the rules.
2007-07-28
03:41:52
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SoCal Dude
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