Personally I look at my 13 month old son and think that no matter what he ever ever ever did, I would never spank him. I'd let my little angel baby run me over with my own car before I would let him have it. But then my SIL's son, who is a little older, throws a cup of milk on my floor and I could string him up by his toes! So I have a new-founded sympathy for parents who let their kids get away with murder, because I might be one of them one day.
But I don't want to be one extreme or the other, and I don't want to raise a bad kid. I got spanked once or twice with my dad, and am still resentful to this day. My mom smacked me more often, but it wasn't as dramatic, and it only fueled my rage, not causing any real physical pain, and again, I still get mad when I think about it. The fact is my sister and I were good girls and its either because of or in spite of the disipline.
I'm just lost sometimes when I think about what kind of parent produces what kind of kid. Anwers?
2007-02-16
04:18:11
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